Nadine Bhabha

Red flag.

Yeah.

Because you cannot control how people feel feelings.

And you're not entitled to a person's life like you.

You're not entitled to him marrying you and having other random children because she's like, oh, I'll be the I'll be like a good mother to the children.

They would be different children.

They sure would.

Yeah, I I'm girl.

Get over it.

That's how I feel.

Yeah, but it's also like, I mean, I hope this for her and I hope this for everyone.

Like, sometimes you think you really like somebody and you like spending time with them and then you meet someone that you really like spending time with and then it makes sense for you.

And you don't really, I mean, I don't know how he treated her in that friends with benefits scenario, but he doesn't owe you a relationship after that.

Yeah.

And look, dating men is a nightmare and a prison.

And it sucks.

However, in this particular scenario, I'm just sort of like, okay, that man's for the streets then.

Like, leave him alone.

Like, he's not in your life and you don't want to win something that like was such a struggle.

She also doesn't sound like a girl's girl.