Nadine Bhabha

We love the idea that like if I am something, especially when it comes with a bit of struggle, it becomes social currency.

It's like truly like you are rich with social currency if you have all of these sort of like solvable problems.

I'm not going to get into like actual diagnoses of real things.

But like, you know, people are like I'm trying to I'm trying not to get canceled.

My my daily challenge.

But, you know, like it's really easy to be like, well, I'm like this or like, OK, I'm going to having a period is really hard.

But I do find a lot of the time it's like people say kind of fucked up things.

And then there's like, but I'm on my period now.

Yeah.

And sometimes I'm a freaking nightmare on my period, too.

But like once a month, I'm not going to blame like a fucked up thing I said on me just kind of being a monster.

No, it's like my parents got divorced when I was a teenager.

I'm not going to then use it as an excuse if I've said something weird to you at a party.

So like as a child of divorced parents, it's like I don't need to put myself in that box.

That is something that happened.

It's part of the quilt of my life, but it's not like who I am.

And I think like a lot of people use the little squares of their the life quilt as this is who I am.

And I think like this woman sounds like she needs to just find her people and she won't be hung up on this.

Like, kind of ghost.

Yeah.