Nadine Bhabha

And it's like, oh, I believe that you deserve all these things, but just not you and me in this relationship.

Yeah.

And it's like, look,

I'll give him that the rat race of capitalism is not like the greatest goal to have.

I don't know what she does for a living.

And so I can understand like, you know, you don't want to put in too many extra hours to make too much extra money in order to like, for what?

Truly for what?

You know, like part of life is going on spontaneous vacations and like making time

for your relationships and love.

That being said, I'm sort of like, it sounds like that's a conversation to be having when it's happening.

Yeah.

And not like right when she's telling you I got a promotion.

Totally.

Like if she starts sleeping at the office on Friday nights and you see her on Monday morning.

different conversation then you have a problem or your relationship's actually suffering totally she just got it you don't even know what it's gonna look like theoretically yeah he's seen it with other couples you're not other couples totally and also even if that is what's happening you can only deal with it like when it's happening

No.

And it's like the fact that he even wants to have it right away.

I'm just sort of like, oh, you're like doomed because anytime an actual problem is going to come up, it's just going to be like only from his perspective.

Like, it sounds like obviously we're only getting her story, but it sounds like he's not thinking about

doesn't work in corporate and she does and like I don't know maybe he's a trades person or whatever it is or maybe he's like middle management or something like it sort of sounds like he is jealous of her I could see it I'm not seeing any comments from OP about like specifics of their job but yeah I am very very curious sometimes I'm just like with with the boys I'm just like just sit back and let be a kept man for a moment