Natalie Joy

Yeah.

How about you, Natasha?

Yeah, I think like that underlying, I don't want to say uncomfortable, but like it's just out there lingering and we choose to kind of keep it

suffer through all these days rather than just take the band-aid off.

And now having done it, it was like we could have cut this out much earlier.

This unspoken sort of

under the rug thing that we were avoiding out of fear that it would change things or I mean we were already like she was pregnant we were married like there's no going back so it's like what's the point sort of but at the same time I feel like our relationship is better because of this

like therapies that we went through on TV.

Both of us.

I mean, I get messages all the time.

Like my loss, my husband, I lost my wife.

Some of them are early in the grief journey.

Some are further along, but they're just like, thank you for representing the widows and widowers and for sharing your story.

I have some hope.

Some of them are asking for advice, but I feel like Natasha gets a lot of messages too about being the person who's supporting.

um, the, the widower or widow, you got messages, right?

It was intense.

I felt like...

it was, it was unreal for a minute.

Cause I just, if you notice I'm like eating the whole time, sort of like for a second, I was like, should I, should I jump in here?