Natalie Norman

I think it's from Esther Perel.

That's exactly when I read it.

I've had, I've heard stories of past partners where their partners were so jealous and it really affected the partner.

Like the partner was jealous and then affected the person that was constantly being scrutinized.

Like if you're constantly in this cycle, like you're going to feel anxious about who you talk to and another partner feels bad when clearly there's just some deep insecurity in the relationship.

I can't be certain, but that's where you start.

Well, I do have a boyfriend, but thank you.

Well, I think for me and my relationship is like, we tell each other about all the people we meet in general.

Yeah, but I don't, it depends if he's like, well, I think he would tell me because I think he would think it was funny.

Yeah, I think it's weirder if like you're unintentionally not telling them.

Like if it's a by accident, fine.

But if it's like someone that looks like you, you're like, oh, like, why didn't you tell?

That's weirder.

No, it's not that you got to tell them.

It's like if you're intentionally keeping for them, keeping it from them, you have to ask yourself why you're keeping that from them.

Like if it comes up organically, great.

If it doesn't, also great.

But if you feel to yourself like I can't tell my partner about this person, there's the problem.

Yeah.

I just like I just like also I got to say my boyfriend's attracted to so many people.