Natalie

So I know that's playing into it.

Um, it's not that, I mean, I'm going to be 32 soon and he's going to be 36 in a month.

So we're kind of thinking, you know, we want to get married, want to start a family, start a life together.

Um, the market right now is just.

Right.

I get it.

And like I said, I came from divorced parents.

I'm personally in debt.

Um, I'm working extremely hard to tackle and just get rid of it.

So him and I don't have to worry about it.

Um, and he is a complete opposite.

Doesn't have any debt.

Didn't have to worry about, um, parents, financial struggles.

So, you know, we're coming from two totally different point of views.

And when I bring up to him, um, you know, I don't want to find a mortgage away if I'm not engaged.

Like I need at least a commitment.

Um, he, um,

I don't want to say he danced around the idea, but he goes, well, we're going to do it eventually.

We're going to be together, but I really want to live together before we do.

I'm like, yeah, me too, but if I'm going to sign a mortgage without a ring, I don't see how that's fair to me.