Nathan

And so kind of just became pretty obvious that some of the things that I was looking for were unlikely to happen.

And to be clear, these aren't, you know, wild sort of things.

They're pretty run of the mill, honestly, I think for most people, but yeah.

Yeah, well, I think it really comes down to just, there's just not as much excitement or adventure in that part of life.

And I think I've come to a better understanding and talking with her, understanding maybe why that's the case.

What does she say about that?

What does she say about that?

Um, uh, she eventually like shared that there's some past history that I was unaware of, um, prior to me that impacted her, you know, approach to things.

Um, in addition to just where she's at, um,

her drive and those sort of things were just kind of mismatched in that area.

So, I mean, frequency was a part of the equation, but beyond that, just, you know, it was pretty much the same every single time.

And, you know, I wanted something with a little more variety, a little more adventure.

Sure.

Something to that effect.

She was

She had never shared it with anyone and it was very emotional for both of us, obviously.

And so, and I encouraged her to, you know, reach out potentially and talk to someone about that, but she didn't feel like she was at a point where she was ready to do that yet.

No.

Well, I think it's a combination because through our conversation that we had, um, she communicated to me some things basically, um, I basically was the only one that ever initiated anything.

And she basically said, um,