Nicholas
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Yeah, so one of her big statements, so she had somehow found out, I don't know, through social media, through other people who knew us, that my wife wanted to have a home birth. That's what she wanted. For me, she's the one having the kid. I'm just there to, what do you want me to do? You want to have the baby at home? Fine. You want to have the baby underwater? I don't care.
Whatever makes you happy. Right.
Whatever makes you happy. Right.
Whatever makes you happy. Right.
Her big thing was she thought that my mother in particular, through her brainwashing tactics, had convinced my wife that a home birth was the only way to have like a good delivery and that there's no pain with home birth or something crazy. And in reality, so I have a younger sister and an older brother. My mom had all three of us in a hospital.
Her big thing was she thought that my mother in particular, through her brainwashing tactics, had convinced my wife that a home birth was the only way to have like a good delivery and that there's no pain with home birth or something crazy. And in reality, so I have a younger sister and an older brother. My mom had all three of us in a hospital.
Her big thing was she thought that my mother in particular, through her brainwashing tactics, had convinced my wife that a home birth was the only way to have like a good delivery and that there's no pain with home birth or something crazy. And in reality, so I have a younger sister and an older brother. My mom had all three of us in a hospital.
She had epidurals with my brother and my sister, and she did not have an epidural with me. And to this day, like last weekend, we were at their house for family dinner like we do every weekend. And she always brings up how big my head was. Sure, sure.
She had epidurals with my brother and my sister, and she did not have an epidural with me. And to this day, like last weekend, we were at their house for family dinner like we do every weekend. And she always brings up how big my head was. Sure, sure.
She had epidurals with my brother and my sister, and she did not have an epidural with me. And to this day, like last weekend, we were at their house for family dinner like we do every weekend. And she always brings up how big my head was. Sure, sure.
She would not be the one necessarily advocating for the home birth.
She would not be the one necessarily advocating for the home birth.
She would not be the one necessarily advocating for the home birth.
Even the judge is like, that has nothing to do with why we're here. We were granted that no contact order. The no contact order for a year was like a sigh of relief. If she violates it, we can call the police. They'll have her arrested. And then it's legal trouble for her. We moved and we just would start spotting her mom's car near where we had moved to.
Even the judge is like, that has nothing to do with why we're here. We were granted that no contact order. The no contact order for a year was like a sigh of relief. If she violates it, we can call the police. They'll have her arrested. And then it's legal trouble for her. We moved and we just would start spotting her mom's car near where we had moved to.
Even the judge is like, that has nothing to do with why we're here. We were granted that no contact order. The no contact order for a year was like a sigh of relief. If she violates it, we can call the police. They'll have her arrested. And then it's legal trouble for her. We moved and we just would start spotting her mom's car near where we had moved to.
She should have had no idea where we had moved to. Even to this day, we had moved in the last two years and we've seen her drive by our new house.
She should have had no idea where we had moved to. Even to this day, we had moved in the last two years and we've seen her drive by our new house.
She should have had no idea where we had moved to. Even to this day, we had moved in the last two years and we've seen her drive by our new house.
We probably haven't spoken to her in four years at this point now. She's always kind of keeping tabs on where we are. So we get a phone call shortly after my son was born because my wife would go on walks around the neighborhood. So six months later, we're only halfway through this no contact order. It's one of her mom's friends saying, hey, your mom had a heart attack. She's in the hospital.