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We probably haven't spoken to her in four years at this point now. She's always kind of keeping tabs on where we are. So we get a phone call shortly after my son was born because my wife would go on walks around the neighborhood. So six months later, we're only halfway through this no contact order. It's one of her mom's friends saying, hey, your mom had a heart attack. She's in the hospital.
We probably haven't spoken to her in four years at this point now. She's always kind of keeping tabs on where we are. So we get a phone call shortly after my son was born because my wife would go on walks around the neighborhood. So six months later, we're only halfway through this no contact order. It's one of her mom's friends saying, hey, your mom had a heart attack. She's in the hospital.
You guys need to get down there as soon as possible. She's in critical condition. Initially, we're like, okay, let's take a step back and think about this. Part of me is like, well, if this is true, we can't just let this go. But also, if she's just trying to get us to show up, I wouldn't put that past her. Right. Yeah, a little test. We would be the ones in violation of the no contact order.
You guys need to get down there as soon as possible. She's in critical condition. Initially, we're like, okay, let's take a step back and think about this. Part of me is like, well, if this is true, we can't just let this go. But also, if she's just trying to get us to show up, I wouldn't put that past her. Right. Yeah, a little test. We would be the ones in violation of the no contact order.
You guys need to get down there as soon as possible. She's in critical condition. Initially, we're like, okay, let's take a step back and think about this. Part of me is like, well, if this is true, we can't just let this go. But also, if she's just trying to get us to show up, I wouldn't put that past her. Right. Yeah, a little test. We would be the ones in violation of the no contact order.
So even if we go see her, she won't get in trouble for that. We would. So we call the hospital first. And there, as I'm sure you know, they're not very forthcoming. I'm asking a nurse, we just need to know because of X, Y, Z, kind of lay out the situation, no contact order. And she goes, okay, let me get a doctor and let them decide what they want to tell you. Doctor gets on the phone.
So even if we go see her, she won't get in trouble for that. We would. So we call the hospital first. And there, as I'm sure you know, they're not very forthcoming. I'm asking a nurse, we just need to know because of X, Y, Z, kind of lay out the situation, no contact order. And she goes, okay, let me get a doctor and let them decide what they want to tell you. Doctor gets on the phone.
So even if we go see her, she won't get in trouble for that. We would. So we call the hospital first. And there, as I'm sure you know, they're not very forthcoming. I'm asking a nurse, we just need to know because of X, Y, Z, kind of lay out the situation, no contact order. And she goes, okay, let me get a doctor and let them decide what they want to tell you. Doctor gets on the phone.
I tell her the whole thing again. And the doctor goes, okay, there was never a heart attack. She has heartburn and gas. She's going home shortly.
I tell her the whole thing again. And the doctor goes, okay, there was never a heart attack. She has heartburn and gas. She's going home shortly.
I tell her the whole thing again. And the doctor goes, okay, there was never a heart attack. She has heartburn and gas. She's going home shortly.
Yes. Part of the no contact order, if we did want to try to resume relationship was to seek counseling, which we had done. I had been a part of it at times. I had not been a part of it at times. They've done counseling kind of off and on for years after that. Even those sessions would get a little wild. There's one session where the counselor just left.
Yes. Part of the no contact order, if we did want to try to resume relationship was to seek counseling, which we had done. I had been a part of it at times. I had not been a part of it at times. They've done counseling kind of off and on for years after that. Even those sessions would get a little wild. There's one session where the counselor just left.
Yes. Part of the no contact order, if we did want to try to resume relationship was to seek counseling, which we had done. I had been a part of it at times. I had not been a part of it at times. They've done counseling kind of off and on for years after that. Even those sessions would get a little wild. There's one session where the counselor just left.
We got a major apology from her later saying like, that was not okay. But I've never in my life been so fed up with a patient before that I had to leave the room.
We got a major apology from her later saying like, that was not okay. But I've never in my life been so fed up with a patient before that I had to leave the room.
We got a major apology from her later saying like, that was not okay. But I've never in my life been so fed up with a patient before that I had to leave the room.
Yeah. There's been some wild things that have happened over the years since then for sure. Like I said, I could go on. That was our first year of marriage. Our first kid. Our first no contact order. Lots of firsts.
Yeah. There's been some wild things that have happened over the years since then for sure. Like I said, I could go on. That was our first year of marriage. Our first kid. Our first no contact order. Lots of firsts.
Yeah. There's been some wild things that have happened over the years since then for sure. Like I said, I could go on. That was our first year of marriage. Our first kid. Our first no contact order. Lots of firsts.