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Nick Bare

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
8574 total appearances

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The Nick Bare Podcast
161: 5 Valuable Life Lessons I've Learned In The Last 5 Years

that you're working towards.

The Nick Bare Podcast
161: 5 Valuable Life Lessons I've Learned In The Last 5 Years

Maybe it is a fitness goal.

The Nick Bare Podcast
161: 5 Valuable Life Lessons I've Learned In The Last 5 Years

Maybe you want to lose 30 pounds.

The Nick Bare Podcast
161: 5 Valuable Life Lessons I've Learned In The Last 5 Years

Maybe you want to run a sub three hour marathon.

The Nick Bare Podcast
161: 5 Valuable Life Lessons I've Learned In The Last 5 Years

Maybe you want to do your first Ironman or first 100 mile ultra marathon.

The Nick Bare Podcast
161: 5 Valuable Life Lessons I've Learned In The Last 5 Years

Maybe it's a job promotion that you want to achieve or a business you want to build.

The Nick Bare Podcast
161: 5 Valuable Life Lessons I've Learned In The Last 5 Years

The reason that it feels so good to work towards those things and then achieve it is because of the struggle.

The Nick Bare Podcast
161: 5 Valuable Life Lessons I've Learned In The Last 5 Years

Without the struggle,

The Nick Bare Podcast
161: 5 Valuable Life Lessons I've Learned In The Last 5 Years

in just achievement, we actually can't experience satisfaction.

The Nick Bare Podcast
161: 5 Valuable Life Lessons I've Learned In The Last 5 Years

You need the struggle in between saying, I want to go pursue this and then achieving it.

The Nick Bare Podcast
161: 5 Valuable Life Lessons I've Learned In The Last 5 Years

In between, we need, we require the struggle to actually experience satisfaction.

The Nick Bare Podcast
161: 5 Valuable Life Lessons I've Learned In The Last 5 Years

But what happens when we actually achieve the thing

The Nick Bare Podcast
161: 5 Valuable Life Lessons I've Learned In The Last 5 Years

is that we experience satisfaction and then satisfaction dissipates.

The Nick Bare Podcast
161: 5 Valuable Life Lessons I've Learned In The Last 5 Years

It's really hard to maintain satisfaction.

The Nick Bare Podcast
161: 5 Valuable Life Lessons I've Learned In The Last 5 Years

So we have to keep working on it and towards it.

The Nick Bare Podcast
161: 5 Valuable Life Lessons I've Learned In The Last 5 Years

And if we don't have purpose and we don't have any enjoyment, but we just have satisfaction, you're going to end up on this continuous loop, this hamster wheel,

The Nick Bare Podcast
161: 5 Valuable Life Lessons I've Learned In The Last 5 Years

That is being driven by dopamine of needing to constantly achieve and achieve and achieve to actually feel anything.

The Nick Bare Podcast
161: 5 Valuable Life Lessons I've Learned In The Last 5 Years

You need purpose.

The Nick Bare Podcast
161: 5 Valuable Life Lessons I've Learned In The Last 5 Years

You need meaning.

The Nick Bare Podcast
161: 5 Valuable Life Lessons I've Learned In The Last 5 Years

But we also need struggle and we need goals and we need to work towards something.