Nick Freitas

Doesn't matter who it is.

Doesn't matter who it is.

And what I'm telling you, it's not that I don't love her.

I'm also responsible for protecting her.

But it's teaching her also what to expect from her own husband one day.

Smart.

Her husband should be protecting her.

And then her husband will have her back when there's disagreements with the children.

And so there has to be that element too, that authority element.

So I'm an authority.

I'm not a tyrant.

Kids are looking for direction.

They're looking for structure.

Yeah.

Yeah, no, I think that's true.

They're learning love in a couple ways.

One, they're learning the love that you have for them, but they're also learning what relationships look like by watching how mom and dad interact.

That's why I always tell people, when you start having kids, it becomes really easy to put the focus away from the marriage and onto the children.

And there is a certain level of shift that has to take place.

But the marriage was necessary to have the children, right?