Nick Pollard

I'm struggling people pleasing, you know, like, okay, well, I don't experience you that way. Now I've heard some of the backstory. I might've been incorrect, but the, the generosity, the kindness, the, the loving way you show up, the, the joyful part of you that actually gets the,

I'm struggling people pleasing, you know, like, okay, well, I don't experience you that way. Now I've heard some of the backstory. I might've been incorrect, but the, the generosity, the kindness, the, the loving way you show up, the, the joyful part of you that actually gets the,

I'm struggling people pleasing, you know, like, okay, well, I don't experience you that way. Now I've heard some of the backstory. I might've been incorrect, but the, the generosity, the kindness, the, the loving way you show up, the, the joyful part of you that actually gets the,

to look at yourself not as a problem, but as having a set of problems and then solving each one through a long enough timeline, you get to keep all those things you love about yourself. You don't have to turn into an asshole. You just get off that line. It's like, If you're driving head-on at a bus, just steer. Just turn. You'll be fine.

to look at yourself not as a problem, but as having a set of problems and then solving each one through a long enough timeline, you get to keep all those things you love about yourself. You don't have to turn into an asshole. You just get off that line. It's like, If you're driving head-on at a bus, just steer. Just turn. You'll be fine.

to look at yourself not as a problem, but as having a set of problems and then solving each one through a long enough timeline, you get to keep all those things you love about yourself. You don't have to turn into an asshole. You just get off that line. It's like, If you're driving head-on at a bus, just steer. Just turn. You'll be fine.

And I think that's – Maxwell Maltz probably was one of the first real books that I ever – Engagements called psycho cybernetics. I don't know if you ever read that one.

And I think that's – Maxwell Maltz probably was one of the first real books that I ever – Engagements called psycho cybernetics. I don't know if you ever read that one.

And I think that's – Maxwell Maltz probably was one of the first real books that I ever – Engagements called psycho cybernetics. I don't know if you ever read that one.

It's been a while. So, you know, this is going to be clunky and probably wrong. But his equation of humans is that we're all kind of servo mechanisms like guided missiles and missiles don't actually guided missiles don't actually aim at a target. They aim away from not the target. So when you just start to realize that, okay, well, I'm not on target. So just, okay, aim away from not on target.

It's been a while. So, you know, this is going to be clunky and probably wrong. But his equation of humans is that we're all kind of servo mechanisms like guided missiles and missiles don't actually guided missiles don't actually aim at a target. They aim away from not the target. So when you just start to realize that, okay, well, I'm not on target. So just, okay, aim away from not on target.

It's been a while. So, you know, this is going to be clunky and probably wrong. But his equation of humans is that we're all kind of servo mechanisms like guided missiles and missiles don't actually guided missiles don't actually aim at a target. They aim away from not the target. So when you just start to realize that, okay, well, I'm not on target. So just, okay, aim away from not on target.

And then you're going to course correct your way to, you know, a pretty happy life, just taking good care of yourself and getting in shape and, um, you know, starting to eat well. It's always the first thing I work with my clients on is like, all right, let's go to the gym. Um, let's get some of the anger out of your body. Like, Pleasers are pissed historically over every person.

And then you're going to course correct your way to, you know, a pretty happy life, just taking good care of yourself and getting in shape and, um, you know, starting to eat well. It's always the first thing I work with my clients on is like, all right, let's go to the gym. Um, let's get some of the anger out of your body. Like, Pleasers are pissed historically over every person.

And then you're going to course correct your way to, you know, a pretty happy life, just taking good care of yourself and getting in shape and, um, you know, starting to eat well. It's always the first thing I work with my clients on is like, all right, let's go to the gym. Um, let's get some of the anger out of your body. Like, Pleasers are pissed historically over every person.

They're just mad because their life hasn't gone the way they wanted it to go. Well, it's not going to unless you do something about it. So get some of the anger out, get them in shape. We start to build up on this idea of like, how do I make more money? And you start to see life improve. Yeah, I don't know how to answer your question there. I got lost in my own brain.

They're just mad because their life hasn't gone the way they wanted it to go. Well, it's not going to unless you do something about it. So get some of the anger out, get them in shape. We start to build up on this idea of like, how do I make more money? And you start to see life improve. Yeah, I don't know how to answer your question there. I got lost in my own brain.

They're just mad because their life hasn't gone the way they wanted it to go. Well, it's not going to unless you do something about it. So get some of the anger out, get them in shape. We start to build up on this idea of like, how do I make more money? And you start to see life improve. Yeah, I don't know how to answer your question there. I got lost in my own brain.

probably better as a, as a, as a relatively small demonstration. But if I say to you, like I say, Chris, you're not enough. What do you feel physically when I say that to you? Uh, like, uh, closing over shoulders come forward.

probably better as a, as a, as a relatively small demonstration. But if I say to you, like I say, Chris, you're not enough. What do you feel physically when I say that to you? Uh, like, uh, closing over shoulders come forward.