Nick Viall

And it makes perfect sense that she's still wounded by that.

And it also makes perfect sense that she's attracted to somebody like Dakota, where it's difficult...

really get his love in an authentic way.

And then he lies to her and it feels like it's her dad walking out on her.

And then when he says that he's sorry and they have a little honeymoon period or save the rose for me, then she's getting the attention that she wishes she got from her father.

And it just sort of replays over and over and over again.

And Dakota's never going to be the one to heal that wound.

Taylor needs to go to even more therapy, do even more EMDR.

I know that she was a fan of it.

in order to like really process that grief and move through it um but it's the same sort of thing that happens to everyone and everyone who is like online or internet famous or reality star you're getting attention it feels really good it feels like it's healing a wound it's not really but you have to get more and more and more of it to start feeling like a like it's actually making a difference but it never does and does that make sense yeah yeah that's really interesting

Yeah, every now and then there's a Miranda who's doing it right.

The cameras might not pick up on it or something, or we might not pick up on it.

But Miranda is mature and a hero and seemingly kind of always gets fucked over, but handles it really well.

Yeah.

Yeah, it does not age well.

It's kind of cute and hot when you're in your 20s, possibly early 30s.

But once you get older, it's disgusting.

Yeah, I think when I first saw the TMZ video, I saw it a minute after it came out.

I saw it with the rest of the world.

And I already had my nuanced feelings for Taylor, but I've always been a Taylor Frankie Paul fan.