Nick Viall

And then the difficult part is to find out when that person you're giving all this attention and energy to doesn't like figuring out whether like they deserve a second chance or are they really showing you who they are?

And that honestly is like the very difficult part about love and dating.

But the people like West, they'll never cop to it.

It's not fair, right?

Nothing about it is fair.

The dating and relationships aren't fair.

You do feel like when you're in Sierra's position, yeah, you're like, why am I always feeling like this?

Because if you're Sierra, you don't want to change how you move.

You don't want to be less of a good partner.

You don't want to show up not as like...

But yeah, I mean, I agree with Sierra.

It's not fair.

Like, the people criticizing Sierra is like,

preference and met.

We all have bad pickers.

That's part of going out there and dating.

And we have to be willing to look back and be just more precious with our energy, right?

More precious with the people we invest in.

One of my best memories about dating is when I first got cheated on.

It's like, and not because it was like, that was a painful experience.