Nick Viall

Like it's our ego telling us we have to have something that we can't want.

Chemistry is not rooted in how the day to day of people getting along and making things work and compromising or sharing in moments and how they raise kids or what that has nothing to do with chemistry.

So I'm not denying you have chemistry, but you have to want more for yourself than just these intense feelings that you can't explain.

And when we do try to get to the bottom of it, it sounds like these feelings are coming from more toxic places rather than healthy places.

Yeah, I would say so.

Do you do any therapy?

I'm glad I was helpful and I appreciate you reaching out.

But I think if this has been eye-opening for you, I think that's great.

But I think when you get off the phone, there's a greater chance that you will probably forget what I said and the pull from him will be intense.

So if you really want to move on from this, I would really encourage you to explore therapy.

And it might take some time to find a therapist that's right for you.

This is something I think you need to work through and understand why you've painted a really inaccurate picture about why this guy is worth your time.

And it's going to be a challenge to get over it.

And it's always helpful to get through a difficult time with help.

I'm glad this was helpful, but I'm worried it won't stick.

All right.

Well, good luck.

I appreciate the call.

And when you're ready, I think looking into some therapy would probably be beneficial to you.

Okay.