Nicole Hill

She's in love.

But in the background of all this, she's dealing with the fact that Paul is cheating on her.

Come on, Paul.

Paul.

Yeah, Essie sort of knew that there were always other women, but he'd been keeping it on the low before.

Then one day, he comes to her, and he's like, Essie, I love you so much.

We both said we want an unconventional relationship.

Why don't we open up our marriage?

He's also seeing, among others, he's also seeing, among others, a wealthy white British party girl named Yolande Jackson.

She's described as just like fun and carefree and a sometimes actress.

Between the women and the fame and his growing activism, Paul is getting sloppy.

The papers catch wind and they're speculating that he wants to marry Yolande.

Plus, Essie is finding love notes.

She's pissed.

So what would be your advice to our auntie Essie as a man about how she should navigate this conversation with Paul?

She does not want to leave him.

I'll do you better.

I would tell her to do what you said.

Okay.

I'm going to tell you what she does.