Nicole Lapin

And I think when it's hysterical, it's historical, right?

Like you had this reaction to it.

Like where was that coming from?

And

You uncovered it.

And a lot of this stuff is not rational, right?

It comes from childhood.

And there's, you know, this systemic idea that like the woman is responsible.

I even noticed that our nanny, and we're all in a group thread, like she'll come to me and ask me the questions or, you know, in-laws will ask about like logistics, but just to the woman.

And so...

And it's generational, but also not like women who are younger than me or my age, like will instinctively come to me to ask questions about our daughter.

And what about parents that leave their job to take care of the kids?

Do you like the idea of putting a monetary value to a lot of these chores and labor?

So even if you have a prenup, having a postnup depending on the labor that you're doing in the home is important?

But also statistically, married men make more than single men.

So that's called the marital wage premium.

Married women do make more than single women, but it's a much smaller gap.

So what do you think came first?

This is kind of a chicken or egg situation.

Are married men making more money or are men who make more money more likely to be married?