Nicole Lapin
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
That's how you open the dialogue.
I mean, I'm sure you've seen the viral Brene Brown clip where she talks about no marriage is 50-50.
So what do you think?
At times it's 10-90 or 90-10 or whatever.
But over time, it nets out to...
50-50.
Is that the right framework?
I just went on Facebook.
Well, even having a scorecard of whatever that tally is feels dangerous.
Yes.
I mean, because it's so amorphous.
I'm sure you've seen this viral video where
Men ask women like where random things are.
Like where are the scissors?
Where's the duct tape?
I mean, but the point of that is that men are outsourcing brain space for things like where is the kid's winter jacket?
Yes.
And so how – when you start to think of all of that mental load or like the cognitive load that feel is so obviously invisible work, how do you quantify that?
I have that problem.
Yeah.