Nicole

So I actually ended up asking him to leave and he refused.

And he just kind of continued sitting at our table.

And so I excused myself from the situation.

And after about 30, 45 minutes, he ended up leaving.

Yeah, so he was he was here.

He was he witnessed the whole thing.

And, you know, he did not

respond in the way that I would expect my husband to if I'm being completely honest.

Yeah, dude.

Yeah, he kind of...

I did.

I did.

So we had a pretty honest conversation after the fact.

And I just, you know, explained to him, um, my disappointment in his lack of response and like, you know, just, just being on my side and something like that.

And, um, if he acknowledged that and apologized and, you know, said moving forward, if that, you know, something like that happens again, um, you know, he knows how to respond and, and would do such, um,

But so now I and I told my husband, I said, you know, he's not welcome back in my home.

I'm not in a place where I'm willing to tolerate that level of disrespect from anybody.

And he agreed that that was seven months ago.

And so now time has passed and the holidays are coming up and he's been kind of pressuring my husband to see us.

And I just don't really know, you know, you always say like what the next right thing is.