Nikki Westcott

Well, I mean, like our boyfriends when we were in our 20s didn't have the flexibility that we did, but we would just do it together.

Have fun.

We're going to Cancun for spring break.

They're like, sure you are.

Off you try.

They're like, oh, unreal.

I might go camping down Fingal Way.

Angels.

Okay, here's the next one.

Most people don't actually choose their life.

They slowly drift into it and then retroactively justify it.

We like to think we're making intentional decisions, careers, relationships, where we live, who we become.

But a lot of the time, it's actually just time inconvenience, fear and small compromises that accumulate over time.

And then once we're far enough in, we start telling a story about why it was meant to be or the right choice.

That is interesting.

So I do think... I really envy people, not envy, sorry, that's the wrong word, admire people that are bold enough to do that.

Yeah.

You're like, most people don't actually choose their life.

You're like, exactly.

Lucy chose mine, actually.