Nir Eyal
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She was clearly, she was in the wrong.
I was in the right.
But here's the second question.
Second question is,
Is it absolutely true?
Is this belief that my mother was too judgmental and hard to please absolutely true?
Is there no possible interpretation?
Absolute means 100%, without exception.
Every single time, there's no possible way she wasn't being too judgmental and hard to please.
Well...
I'm honest with myself.
I mean, maybe, maybe I could come up with a reason.
Maybe she was trying to just help me, right?
But she didn't want me to get scammed by this florist.
Well, okay, maybe there's another explanation.
Okay, reluctantly, I agreed.
The third question, the third question is, who am I when I hold on to this belief?
Who do I become?
What do I act like?
How do I feel?