Olivia Attwood

Yeah.

So, yeah.

So that, I mean, that's tough.

And you went at 10.

Went at 10.

And have you had conversations with your mum as an adult about, has she said to you, I wish I hadn't sent you or...

And that, I think, it can do two things.

I think it can create resilience.

And I think for me, in the end, it created resilience.

But I think sometimes it can cause more damage than it does.

And is that how you would feel?

There's like a, well, you kind of have to learn to self-soothe.

Yeah.

And also, I think, I don't know what the schools you went to were like, but, you know, I'm sure I could imagine a lot of the school I went to probably is very different now.

Like the pastoral care, like for girls, especially because my school was like historically a boys boarding school and then they introduced girls at a later point.

So when I went, I think that some of my lessons, there was only like two or three girls in a lesson.

So I don't think they had really, they hadn't developed how to like, like nurture us.

We just did a lot of like, you know, I remember like, you know, there was no like sanitary stuff in the bathroom.

There was no one to talk to about that.

It was, you just kind of were figuring it out on your own.