Olivia Wilde

If you accept it, then they'll do this cover shoot and they'll do a piece about it."

And I remember being like, I understand that this is the most fucked up thing in the world, but the part of me that felt like the girl who didn't fit in from high school, the girl who never felt like I fit those standards, who felt awkward and wrong in every way, I know that part of me was like,

Really?

Like, you want me?

I fit it now?

And it took me many years to understand and to unravel that.

It's a dangerous thing to suddenly be told, like, now you are good and we want you and now your value, you are literally being ranked and your value is entirely dependent on our value.

Fickle, subjective definition of beauty.

It was just a crazy thing.

And it was like, the standards change and you just happen to fit that.

And...

I wonder if that would have existed if social media had been a thing, if that would have even been able to exist.

I don't know.

I guess it exists in different ways now.

But I just remember being like, it's just so crazy.

Yeah.

And then?

Yeah.

Well, then it's like,

It's easier if you never feel like you have it and you don't expect it and you're not trying to maintain it.