Olivia Wilde
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It's like...
The thing that often happens to love in marriage is that we stop actively loving.
Like Esther likes to say to us, love is a verb.
It is something you have to continue to engage in.
And I think the quote is acknowledging that in many cases, marriage becomes the end of that engagement in the process of loving.
And it becomes something that involves a lot of entitlement.
And that's where it dies.
I guess that's sort of how I feel.
I feel like it's something, I think it is an optimistic thing to do in pessimistic times.
You know, like when I see people getting married, I'm like, all right, good for you.
Give it a go.
Like, why not?
I was having this conversation with, you know, Terry Real?
No.
Oh, you would love Terry Real.
He's kind of like the male Esther, although they have very different opinions.
But he is a really insightful couples therapist.
And we were having this conversation.
He did a Q&A in Boston after one screening.
And I was like, it's crazy that...