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Ore Oduba

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On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

And the thing that really stuck with me at the end, because, I mean, they described everything that I knew and that kind of exposure to this kind of material and how things have changed from analog and us looking at magazines in a bush to blockbuster video to the onset of broadband to then digital and then smartphones.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

And how that was going to change all of our behaviors because this undercurrent lived underneath societally.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

It was acceptable here and then where this lib was under, but was fully accessible.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

And that was going to change all of our behavior.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

And I remember the line that stuck with me was, this might not be a problem for everyone.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

because everybody has their own spectrum, their own connectivity to this.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

And this really is an issue for everybody connected to a device.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

They said, this might not be a problem for everybody.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

but it could be a problem for anybody.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

The amount of access that is available to anybody at any one time to create that kind of reaction that is a drug, it is creating the same neurological change in you that drugs do.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

that level of exposure could be a problem for absolutely anybody and i think when you understand that and look at how children are consuming it yeah how kids as young as six are accessing this accessing this kind of material the kids between 11 and 13 have all seen there's an average age of kids coming across pornography the 80 percent of it come across social media

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

that's when you understand that this is a public health crisis.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

This is, everybody can admit that no children should be exposed to pornography at any age.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

But when there is a majority of children that are accessing it and seeing it well before they're of any legal age, well before they've had any conversation about sex,

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

that years before they have their first sexual education class or discussion in family, they've already had years of exposure to this stuff online.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

That's a crisis because it's fundamental to how we exist in society.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

And if they're using this as their model,

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

as an education for what sex looks like in their lives.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

Fast forward 10 years and it gets to the worst that we're seeing in society today, but at an even more accelerated rate.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

You're right.