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Ore Oduba

πŸ‘€ Speaker
577 total appearances

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On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

You know, these same websites, these same apps are visited by children, you know, two or three clicks away and you're onto something that kids shouldn't be looking at.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

So it comes, it drips down from us grownups really understanding that there is a consequence of a lot of this in our own behavior.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

When I look at this content, and I guess this was me for 30 years, when I decided to speak about it, I talked about having had an addiction to it since the age of nine.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

Or being introduced to explicit adult material at nine years old.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

It became a thread for my entire life for 30 years.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

I know what happens.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

I know what happens when you are repeatedly exposed to this kind of material.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

What it does to your sexual script.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

How, as a child, that is your first...

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

mapping of what sex looks like.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

And the way that I saw it change over decades to the violent, to the sexual objectification of women, it's no surprise when I see kind of the division

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

the volatility that exists on social media and some of the really difficult things that we societally have to come to grips with and ends up, like I think of what is the cost of addiction to this kind of material?

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

And I think, you know, you're probably often asked the same question when it comes to addiction to drink and drugs.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

And it is depleted mental health.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

It is cost of relationships.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

It is cost and finances.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

It does often come to end of life, whether it is suicide or, you know, affects physically on your body.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

I think in this world,

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

The extent of it, the cost of it, leads to sexual crime.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

Because I think that kind of material being so disassociative of the women and the girls in your life, you're not thinking about the important people that you love in your life when you're watching it, especially over time.