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Ore Oduba

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On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

And have we done enough?

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

together community like as a community with friends and with families and we're rerouting this bad stuff we're seeing that kids are using it in a bad way that's not the right way to do it here's the good healthy like modeling what good good conversation good communication and good sexual relationships look like because without it this is going to be their script yeah and we can't let them do that

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

Okay.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

And this was blasting through my radio yesterday.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

Spotify knew I needed to hear it, but the Cassidy Jansen version of that's the way is the Celine Dion song.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

The first time I watched it had me on the floor.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

It is it's, I mean, it's a Celine Dion power ballad, but there was something about when I listened to it and especially the lyric and it is tattooed here.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

Don't give up on your faith.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

Love comes to those who believe it.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

Great, solid.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

And even now thinking about when I heard that at the time, I think a lot of what I have come to at this point in my life is because I returned to my faith and my Christianity.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

You know, every door that I thought was open to me, shut.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

And the only door that was open was my faith and it saved me.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

And so that with that song and Cassidy Jansen's vocal shout out to Cass.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

Yeah, that was something special.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

We lost my sister last year to suicide.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

this is like every time I go to my tattooist she's like can you not think of every tattoo has to mean something really deep and really important to you but I'm like I'm sorry hun I can't live my life anywhere other than in its very depths and you know a year later we've lived a really tragic chapter in our lives but the way I look at my sister and the legacy of my sister is gratitude for the life

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

And so I'm able to look at it despite the incredible sadness and the tragedy of it.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

I am grateful that my sister gave me, gave us 37 years.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

And one of the songs that was a huge thing for our childhood, and it was one that we had played at my sister's celebration of life, was Kiss from a Rose by Seal.