Pascal Auclair

Some space can open up.

Maybe joy or compassion.

Like, oh, it's a difficult situation, you know.

And what I see is the mind can become more creative.

It can be more creative and appropriate.

Instead of barging in, you know, or...

Like, it'll be more, it'll remember, it'll remember the values, it'll remember respect, it will remember that things are, that I don't have control, you know, that I cannot control the other's view, the other's words, you know, but I can engage.

That's a possibility.

There might be the possibility of contribution or participating, but not control, you know.

And so by just releasing some of the self-identification and just recognizing what is happening.

So it's not like it changes everything.

The person is still saying what they're saying.

But I'm not totally fused with this.

This is happening to me, about me, referring to me.

It's a different vista again.

It's a different view.

It's not...

Events are not about me, for me, referring to me.

It's a whole different view.

It's, oh, there's a conflict happening or there's something happening that is delicate.