Pastor Keion Henderson

they could actually speed up and move a little quicker, but the leaf that they eat puts them in a state of mind where they are anesthetized by, for lack of better term, they're almost high off of what they eat.

So they're responding to the leaf.

So the substratum of the book was, is that in love, sometimes we show up slow or lazy,

because of what our diet presented, right?

So maybe you got a little bit of envy from your father and a little bit of jealousy from your mother and a little bit of lack of forgiveness from your auntie and maybe a little rejection issues from your personal experiences.

And all of that makes you very lazy and hesitant in love where you are supposed to go the extra mile for somebody, but because you've been hurt in the steps, you don't want to go forward.

And so this book is telling us that we have to look at our attachment styles to look at how we were raised, how we were hurt and what we have been through, because the truth is, it is the reason why we show up and love the way we show up.

And it also helps you.

to have more grace for the people you love, because now you recognize that they're not showing up to you to spite you.

They're showing up to you in spite of you because of the things that have happened in their life.

So it's a book that helps us realize that one of the most important things on the earth, if not the most important thing about love, is that we have choices as to how we show up in it, right?

But it starts with going back

to realize how you got to the point you are in life.

And it's a book.

It makes you look yourself in the mirror.

You know, you got to deal with you in order to get through it.

But we've been hearing rave reviews about it.

We've been all over the country talking about it.

New York and California and Florida.

We've been all over.