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Patric Gagne

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We Can Do Hard Things
I’m a Sociopath: Patric Gagne’s Story

But the truth is we very much can in that there are inherent emotions associated meaning everyone is born with them. These are things like anger, anticipation, joy, trust, fear, surprise, sadness, disgust. These are inherent. But there is another set of emotions known as the social emotions. Embarrassment, love, shame, jealousy, guilt, empathy. These are learned emotions.

We Can Do Hard Things
I’m a Sociopath: Patric Gagne’s Story

But the truth is we very much can in that there are inherent emotions associated meaning everyone is born with them. These are things like anger, anticipation, joy, trust, fear, surprise, sadness, disgust. These are inherent. But there is another set of emotions known as the social emotions. Embarrassment, love, shame, jealousy, guilt, empathy. These are learned emotions.

We Can Do Hard Things
I’m a Sociopath: Patric Gagne’s Story

But the truth is we very much can in that there are inherent emotions associated meaning everyone is born with them. These are things like anger, anticipation, joy, trust, fear, surprise, sadness, disgust. These are inherent. But there is another set of emotions known as the social emotions. Embarrassment, love, shame, jealousy, guilt, empathy. These are learned emotions.

We Can Do Hard Things
I’m a Sociopath: Patric Gagne’s Story

Sociopaths have a harder time connecting to these emotions. In the book, I refer to it as an emotional learning disability because I remember being a kid watching the other kids sort of grasp these emotions instantly. And I didn't, I had a very, very difficult time. It's sort of like needing glasses.

We Can Do Hard Things
I’m a Sociopath: Patric Gagne’s Story

Sociopaths have a harder time connecting to these emotions. In the book, I refer to it as an emotional learning disability because I remember being a kid watching the other kids sort of grasp these emotions instantly. And I didn't, I had a very, very difficult time. It's sort of like needing glasses.

We Can Do Hard Things
I’m a Sociopath: Patric Gagne’s Story

Sociopaths have a harder time connecting to these emotions. In the book, I refer to it as an emotional learning disability because I remember being a kid watching the other kids sort of grasp these emotions instantly. And I didn't, I had a very, very difficult time. It's sort of like needing glasses.

We Can Do Hard Things
I’m a Sociopath: Patric Gagne’s Story

Without my glasses, I'm physically capable of reading, but it's just that sometimes I have to squint. And that's a lot like how I experienced the social emotions. And it can be challenging because I'm not living in a world that's native to me, so to speak. But I also want to clarify that sociopathy is different from psychopathy.

We Can Do Hard Things
I’m a Sociopath: Patric Gagne’s Story

Without my glasses, I'm physically capable of reading, but it's just that sometimes I have to squint. And that's a lot like how I experienced the social emotions. And it can be challenging because I'm not living in a world that's native to me, so to speak. But I also want to clarify that sociopathy is different from psychopathy.

We Can Do Hard Things
I’m a Sociopath: Patric Gagne’s Story

Without my glasses, I'm physically capable of reading, but it's just that sometimes I have to squint. And that's a lot like how I experienced the social emotions. And it can be challenging because I'm not living in a world that's native to me, so to speak. But I also want to clarify that sociopathy is different from psychopathy.

We Can Do Hard Things
I’m a Sociopath: Patric Gagne’s Story

A psychopath is believed to suffer from certain biological impediments that make it impossible for them to move through complex emotional development. So while they can feel those inherent emotions just like everyone else, they are incapable of learning the social emotions, whereas sociopaths are capable and they just struggle.

We Can Do Hard Things
I’m a Sociopath: Patric Gagne’s Story

A psychopath is believed to suffer from certain biological impediments that make it impossible for them to move through complex emotional development. So while they can feel those inherent emotions just like everyone else, they are incapable of learning the social emotions, whereas sociopaths are capable and they just struggle.

We Can Do Hard Things
I’m a Sociopath: Patric Gagne’s Story

A psychopath is believed to suffer from certain biological impediments that make it impossible for them to move through complex emotional development. So while they can feel those inherent emotions just like everyone else, they are incapable of learning the social emotions, whereas sociopaths are capable and they just struggle.

We Can Do Hard Things
I’m a Sociopath: Patric Gagne’s Story

All of this, I have to point out, is all the more complicated by the fact that the term sociopath is no longer used due to stigma. They recently reclassified sociopathy as secondary psychopathy, which I'm not sure does much for stigma, but it also makes it a lot harder to understand and also to research.

We Can Do Hard Things
I’m a Sociopath: Patric Gagne’s Story

All of this, I have to point out, is all the more complicated by the fact that the term sociopath is no longer used due to stigma. They recently reclassified sociopathy as secondary psychopathy, which I'm not sure does much for stigma, but it also makes it a lot harder to understand and also to research.

We Can Do Hard Things
I’m a Sociopath: Patric Gagne’s Story

All of this, I have to point out, is all the more complicated by the fact that the term sociopath is no longer used due to stigma. They recently reclassified sociopathy as secondary psychopathy, which I'm not sure does much for stigma, but it also makes it a lot harder to understand and also to research.

We Can Do Hard Things
I’m a Sociopath: Patric Gagne’s Story

When you're looking up research, you don't know what you're necessarily reading about all the time.

We Can Do Hard Things
I’m a Sociopath: Patric Gagne’s Story

When you're looking up research, you don't know what you're necessarily reading about all the time.

We Can Do Hard Things
I’m a Sociopath: Patric Gagne’s Story

When you're looking up research, you don't know what you're necessarily reading about all the time.

We Can Do Hard Things
I’m a Sociopath: Patric Gagne’s Story

I remember it probably... Probably didn't really resonate with me until I was sort of actively in school and relating to other people through socialization. But I just remember a very... keen awareness that I was not like the other kids. I had a younger sister, so I understood what complex emotional development looked like. And I also understood that I didn't have that.

We Can Do Hard Things
I’m a Sociopath: Patric Gagne’s Story

I remember it probably... Probably didn't really resonate with me until I was sort of actively in school and relating to other people through socialization. But I just remember a very... keen awareness that I was not like the other kids. I had a younger sister, so I understood what complex emotional development looked like. And I also understood that I didn't have that.