Paul Brunson
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And I would hazard a guess that when I make conversations about love and relationships, typically, not always, because I can kind of see the numbers, but typically more women that are trying to learn to deepen their relationships. So I imagine there's a certain person in my audience that sat there thinking, I want to do this. I want to have these conversations with my partner.
And I would hazard a guess that when I make conversations about love and relationships, typically, not always, because I can kind of see the numbers, but typically more women that are trying to learn to deepen their relationships. So I imagine there's a certain person in my audience that sat there thinking, I want to do this. I want to have these conversations with my partner.
I want to take down some of these walls and start talking about the lack of orgasms I've had in the last couple of years. I want to talk about X, Y, and Z. But I know if I bring this conversation up to Dave, Dave's going to like think I'm weird. He's going to like roll his eyes and like put the football back on.
I want to take down some of these walls and start talking about the lack of orgasms I've had in the last couple of years. I want to talk about X, Y, and Z. But I know if I bring this conversation up to Dave, Dave's going to like think I'm weird. He's going to like roll his eyes and like put the football back on.
And I feel a sense of dissatisfaction in this relationship, but because we just don't have a bridge of communication, I feel like I'm faced with a choice now. Do I just leave this guy or do I just stick, tolerate it? and put up with this. And that first step to bridging the gap, what is it? Do I turn the football off and scream at him? Do I send him the link to this podcast?
And I feel a sense of dissatisfaction in this relationship, but because we just don't have a bridge of communication, I feel like I'm faced with a choice now. Do I just leave this guy or do I just stick, tolerate it? and put up with this. And that first step to bridging the gap, what is it? Do I turn the football off and scream at him? Do I send him the link to this podcast?
I think that's probably the best option. I think it's just keep sharing the podcast. I think sharing the podcast with everyone you know, I think is probably the... I'm cherishing it. No, no, no, no, no. No, no.
I think that's probably the best option. I think it's just keep sharing the podcast. I think sharing the podcast with everyone you know, I think is probably the... I'm cherishing it. No, no, no, no, no. No, no.
I thought he was really pushing this one. Yeah, yeah.
I thought he was really pushing this one. Yeah, yeah.
Truly, this is the first step. So say it's Lottie and Dave.
Truly, this is the first step. So say it's Lottie and Dave.
Okay. Lottie's listening to us right now, and she wants to deepen her emotional connection with her partner Dave. What does she do? She sends Dave a link to this podcast, and she says, let's listen to this together. Let's have a date night. Let's listen to this together, and let's just talk about – What's happening?
Okay. Lottie's listening to us right now, and she wants to deepen her emotional connection with her partner Dave. What does she do? She sends Dave a link to this podcast, and she says, let's listen to this together. Let's have a date night. Let's listen to this together, and let's just talk about – What's happening?
You know what I've noticed with one of the shows that I co-host, Married at First Sight UK, what I'm so proud about is I'm stopped all the time by men. And they'll say, Paul, I watch your show with my partner.
You know what I've noticed with one of the shows that I co-host, Married at First Sight UK, what I'm so proud about is I'm stopped all the time by men. And they'll say, Paul, I watch your show with my partner.
and our kids watch it as well and we debate what you're saying and sometimes we disagree with you but sometimes we agree with you and i think this is what we need because just talking about it and having the conversation around it helps to contribute to awareness which puts you on the path to developing skills which then allows you to begin to heal. And ultimately, that's what therapy is.
and our kids watch it as well and we debate what you're saying and sometimes we disagree with you but sometimes we agree with you and i think this is what we need because just talking about it and having the conversation around it helps to contribute to awareness which puts you on the path to developing skills which then allows you to begin to heal. And ultimately, that's what therapy is.
Therapy is healing. And so having the dialogue based on this podcast, based on a book, based on a television show is truly not just a first step, that's a significant step towards your black belt.
Therapy is healing. And so having the dialogue based on this podcast, based on a book, based on a television show is truly not just a first step, that's a significant step towards your black belt.