Paul Brunson

You know, I was saying, you know, when you meet someone, you should lay out exactly what you want. This is a very important question to have early, early on. Now, in terms of where you are with your partner, I would say that if she is for, if she's pro this, and you were indifferent, it feels like you're indifferent, not anti, but indifferent.

You know, I was saying, you know, when you meet someone, you should lay out exactly what you want. This is a very important question to have early, early on. Now, in terms of where you are with your partner, I would say that if she is for, if she's pro this, and you were indifferent, it feels like you're indifferent, not anti, but indifferent.

Yeah, I think I'm somewhat agnostic to it. However, I can call out a bunch of downsides to getting married. Really? Like? Well, again, I don't know because I'm not married. So all the married people are like screaming at me. I know this because they DM me. They've been DMing me for many, many years since I started the Diary of a CEO.

Yeah, I think I'm somewhat agnostic to it. However, I can call out a bunch of downsides to getting married. Really? Like? Well, again, I don't know because I'm not married. So all the married people are like screaming at me. I know this because they DM me. They've been DMing me for many, many years since I started the Diary of a CEO.

Because in some of those early episodes, I was really quite against it. But over time, I've kind of developed my thinking here. I just wonder, I can't understand the first principles as to why having a... like government or religious contract with somebody is going to increase the probability of success in the union of love. Um, there's obviously the issue with the prenup situation.

Because in some of those early episodes, I was really quite against it. But over time, I've kind of developed my thinking here. I just wonder, I can't understand the first principles as to why having a... like government or religious contract with somebody is going to increase the probability of success in the union of love. Um, there's obviously the issue with the prenup situation.

I actually don't have this concern with my, my partner. So I think she's, um, I think you've met her, haven't you? You've met her.

I actually don't have this concern with my, my partner. So I think she's, um, I think you've met her, haven't you? You've met her.

From a distance.

From a distance.

Yeah. I don't have a concern that she's going to try and bankrupt me or that I might try and bankrupt her. Um, so that's not really a concern. Um, The whole charade of, like, doing a massive wedding, I think, is a little bit weird. I think, why can't we just have lots of events over the next 50 years where we bring our friends and family versus, like, one?

Yeah. I don't have a concern that she's going to try and bankrupt me or that I might try and bankrupt her. Um, so that's not really a concern. Um, The whole charade of, like, doing a massive wedding, I think, is a little bit weird. I think, why can't we just have lots of events over the next 50 years where we bring our friends and family versus, like, one?

I've also watched a couple of my friends at the moment who are getting married. The, like, two years of pain and heartache and, like, cancelling date nights so that they can afford this one wedding day feels, like, highly illogical to me. I've got one particular friend who... is having to cancel so much of their like everyday joy to save up for this one big event, which is stressing them both out.

I've also watched a couple of my friends at the moment who are getting married. The, like, two years of pain and heartache and, like, cancelling date nights so that they can afford this one wedding day feels, like, highly illogical to me. I've got one particular friend who... is having to cancel so much of their like everyday joy to save up for this one big event, which is stressing them both out.

And I don't think they're going to have, well, I don't think he's going to have a great time at the wedding anyway, because he seems so stressed by it all. I just, I sometimes hear that people can't like get out of their marriage without having to like file a divorce thing with like the, with through lawyers and going to court and battling out in court.

And I don't think they're going to have, well, I don't think he's going to have a great time at the wedding anyway, because he seems so stressed by it all. I just, I sometimes hear that people can't like get out of their marriage without having to like file a divorce thing with like the, with through lawyers and going to court and battling out in court.

And I just think you should be free to leave if you want to leave. I don't know. I just think... This is a terrible analogy and completely unrelated, but like in football, many of the problems we see with...

And I just think you should be free to leave if you want to leave. I don't know. I just think... This is a terrible analogy and completely unrelated, but like in football, many of the problems we see with...

my favourite club Manchester United at the moment is we've got people on five year contracts who we just can't get rid of and like they want to go we want them to go but because we sign these long contracts with them it's like incredibly difficult and now these players are being like thrown in the back room and they're not playing football and we're like just completely ignoring them because we can't get out the contract yes so I don't know I just think yeah I hear you I hear you alright can we talk about this yes alright

my favourite club Manchester United at the moment is we've got people on five year contracts who we just can't get rid of and like they want to go we want them to go but because we sign these long contracts with them it's like incredibly difficult and now these players are being like thrown in the back room and they're not playing football and we're like just completely ignoring them because we can't get out the contract yes so I don't know I just think yeah I hear you I hear you alright can we talk about this yes alright