Paul Brunson

One of the things we talked about kind of in between the lines was... How society has changed. And one of the ongoing conversations in dating at the moment is around how women are struggling to find compatible men. Because women are more educated. I think there's more women graduating with college degrees now.

One of the things we talked about kind of in between the lines was... How society has changed. And one of the ongoing conversations in dating at the moment is around how women are struggling to find compatible men. Because women are more educated. I think there's more women graduating with college degrees now.

The top 10% of men seem to be having all of the sex, according to some studies that I read, a lot of the sex. And then there's this bottom 50% of men that are somewhat disenfranchised because they... They're not getting the attention. They're probably turning to things like pornography. Women are dating up and to the right, I'm told.

The top 10% of men seem to be having all of the sex, according to some studies that I read, a lot of the sex. And then there's this bottom 50% of men that are somewhat disenfranchised because they... They're not getting the attention. They're probably turning to things like pornography. Women are dating up and to the right, I'm told.

So women, I did read a study that said the majority of women are still looking for a man who's earning more than them. But in a world of equality, which we all agree is a good thing, where women are more educated now, there isn't enough men up and to the right anymore. So there's this sort of disparity between what women are looking for, but actually what's available in the market potentially.

So women, I did read a study that said the majority of women are still looking for a man who's earning more than them. But in a world of equality, which we all agree is a good thing, where women are more educated now, there isn't enough men up and to the right anymore. So there's this sort of disparity between what women are looking for, but actually what's available in the market potentially.

These are all facts. However, we have to interpret. We have to interrogate this data, but more so I think we have to interrogate the narrative that's being handed to us. So I feel like the narrative that's being handed us today is that, you know what, the top 20% of men or 10% of men, they're good, but the bottom 80%, you suck. That couldn't be further from the truth.

These are all facts. However, we have to interpret. We have to interrogate this data, but more so I think we have to interrogate the narrative that's being handed to us. So I feel like the narrative that's being handed us today is that, you know what, the top 20% of men or 10% of men, they're good, but the bottom 80%, you suck. That couldn't be further from the truth.

And I think we have to acknowledge, and this is where two things could be true. One, we live in a patriarchal society, absolutely, absolutely. But do we need to extend more grace? To our men, absolutely, we do. Are men lonelier than they ever have been? Absolutely. Are men confused? Absolutely, right? Are men being misled? Absolutely. Let's extend more grace to our men. What does that mean?

And I think we have to acknowledge, and this is where two things could be true. One, we live in a patriarchal society, absolutely, absolutely. But do we need to extend more grace? To our men, absolutely, we do. Are men lonelier than they ever have been? Absolutely. Are men confused? Absolutely, right? Are men being misled? Absolutely. Let's extend more grace to our men. What does that mean?

That means being aware that we do live in a loneliness epidemic, being aware that less than 27% of men have a friend that they can feel is a confidant, that 0% of them now feel like they have someone who they can go to at 3 a.m. in the morning. It's being aware of these things. It is saying, you know what?

That means being aware that we do live in a loneliness epidemic, being aware that less than 27% of men have a friend that they can feel is a confidant, that 0% of them now feel like they have someone who they can go to at 3 a.m. in the morning. It's being aware of these things. It is saying, you know what?

I can appreciate other traits and characteristics outside of how much you earn or how tall you are, right? It's important to be able to understand. And you just asked me. I said nothing about how much money someone makes, nothing about how tall they are, right?

I can appreciate other traits and characteristics outside of how much you earn or how tall you are, right? It's important to be able to understand. And you just asked me. I said nothing about how much money someone makes, nothing about how tall they are, right?

But at the same time, what we have to understand is the narrative that is handed to about women is that all women are looking for the six foot plus CEO, right, who's making over 100,000 pounds or dollars a year. And that is also not the case.

But at the same time, what we have to understand is the narrative that is handed to about women is that all women are looking for the six foot plus CEO, right, who's making over 100,000 pounds or dollars a year. And that is also not the case.

This study here says despite advancements in gender equality, research indicates that better educated women still tend to prefer husbands who earn more than they do. That's from the Institute for Family Studies. An analysis of online dating behaviors across 24 countries found that women are more selective than men, showing a marked preference for men.

This study here says despite advancements in gender equality, research indicates that better educated women still tend to prefer husbands who earn more than they do. That's from the Institute for Family Studies. An analysis of online dating behaviors across 24 countries found that women are more selective than men, showing a marked preference for men.

with higher incomes and education levels, which again proves this up into the right thing. But there's just not enough men up into the right, so there's going to be a lot of women that are somewhat dissatisfied according to this.

with higher incomes and education levels, which again proves this up into the right thing. But there's just not enough men up into the right, so there's going to be a lot of women that are somewhat dissatisfied according to this.