Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 β Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil
If we look at like the consciousness is the top of the iceberg, you know, outside the top, outside the water.
Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 β Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil
So is what's underneath like shifting and it can pull the top under, right?
Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 β Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil
Or is it supporting the top?
Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 β Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil
And really, I believe is honesty, truth, self-knowledge, humility, gratitude, all this simple stuff.
Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 β Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil
Good mental health is always consistent with simplicity.
Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 β Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil
You know, humility, gratitude are easy things to say.
Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 β Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil
Like, we know what that is, right?
Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 β Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil
We understand what that is.
Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 β Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil
Soothing envy by having immense power and subjugating others is getting very, very complicated, right?
Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 β Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil
What that is and how that plays out.
Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 β Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil
So if we are in touch with ourselves, if we're honest with ourselves, if we own what's ours, we don't try and own what's not ours, right?
Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 β Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil
What happens then is something isn't waiting inside of us to sort of jump us with some new fact of self or challenge of self, right?
Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 β Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil
Then I think what happens are phenomena like intrinsic learning, like the way that so much happens inside of us automatically, right?
Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 β Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil
How people who have high levels of expertise know the answer to complex questions more rapidly, right?
Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 β Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil
It doesn't take them longer to think through it, but they have more knowledge to think through.
Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 β Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil
It's that more happens rapidly and unconsciously, so they know the more complex answer more
Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 β Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil
more quickly and readily, right?
Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 β Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil
And we can build that in ourselves, not just in terms of factual knowledge, but in terms of how we respond to things, right?
Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 β Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil
If I make a mistake, do I respond with reflexive shame, right?
Lex Fridman Podcast
#357 β Paul Conti: Narcissism, Sociopathy, Envy, and the Nature of Good and Evil
If I see someone has something I'd like, how do I respond?