Pepper

So I was just kind of like, this is this is how it is.

Like, he puts up with my whatever and I put up with his cheating.

And for some reason, at some point, I was like, this is ridiculous.

I'm not doing this anymore.

But nobody can tell me that.

No.

So I leave him and I'm at this job.

So I met my husband at my job.

I'm at my job.

Him and I were both in relationships when we met.

No, I was never married.

This is my first marriage.

Yep.

My husband was married before me, but I was never married.

Okay.

So we were both working at a job and we were talking about life and everything.

And I would always talk about

my ex and i at that point i don't even want a relationship ever again in my life i just i just don't want to deal with it i'm better off alone i know what i'm worth type of situation yeah and he was in a marriage where they were like friends like they worked opposite shifts she would come home and go to bed and like you know you deserve better than that whatever kind of the same situation you are in this situation where this is how you feel everybody is and it's not like that you know

So I ended up leaving that job and he wanted to leave his wife.

And I was like, I'm not, I'm not, I'm not any part of that.