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Pete Wright

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All The Feelings • Still Adulting
Strip the Bed, Text Your Friend: An Extremely Reasonable Episode About Adult Hospitality and the Friendship Recession

One in about six of us is walking around without a single person we'd call close.

All The Feelings • Still Adulting
Strip the Bed, Text Your Friend: An Extremely Reasonable Episode About Adult Hospitality and the Friendship Recession

And it's not evenly distributed.

All The Feelings • Still Adulting
Strip the Bed, Text Your Friend: An Extremely Reasonable Episode About Adult Hospitality and the Friendship Recession

Nearly a quarter of adults without a college degree reported having zero close friends.

All The Feelings • Still Adulting
Strip the Bed, Text Your Friend: An Extremely Reasonable Episode About Adult Hospitality and the Friendship Recession

That is the friendship recession.

All The Feelings • Still Adulting
Strip the Bed, Text Your Friend: An Extremely Reasonable Episode About Adult Hospitality and the Friendship Recession

It really does.

All The Feelings • Still Adulting
Strip the Bed, Text Your Friend: An Extremely Reasonable Episode About Adult Hospitality and the Friendship Recession

Yeah.

All The Feelings • Still Adulting
Strip the Bed, Text Your Friend: An Extremely Reasonable Episode About Adult Hospitality and the Friendship Recession

So beyond the fact that the friendship recession is like a PowerPoint title slag.

All The Feelings • Still Adulting
Strip the Bed, Text Your Friend: An Extremely Reasonable Episode About Adult Hospitality and the Friendship Recession

Sure.

All The Feelings • Still Adulting
Strip the Bed, Text Your Friend: An Extremely Reasonable Episode About Adult Hospitality and the Friendship Recession

Yeah, it does capture something real.

All The Feelings • Still Adulting
Strip the Bed, Text Your Friend: An Extremely Reasonable Episode About Adult Hospitality and the Friendship Recession

And I think our social circles are shrinking, too.

All The Feelings • Still Adulting
Strip the Bed, Text Your Friend: An Extremely Reasonable Episode About Adult Hospitality and the Friendship Recession

And that decline has been steepest among men whose close friendships have been cut roughly in half since 1990.

All The Feelings • Still Adulting
Strip the Bed, Text Your Friend: An Extremely Reasonable Episode About Adult Hospitality and the Friendship Recession

And here is, I think, something that's interesting.

All The Feelings • Still Adulting
Strip the Bed, Text Your Friend: An Extremely Reasonable Episode About Adult Hospitality and the Friendship Recession

The American Friendship Project was a multi-year research effort out of several universities, Nevada, Michigan, there were a bunch of them.

All The Feelings • Still Adulting
Strip the Bed, Text Your Friend: An Extremely Reasonable Episode About Adult Hospitality and the Friendship Recession

They found something that complicates the doom a little bit.

All The Feelings • Still Adulting
Strip the Bed, Text Your Friend: An Extremely Reasonable Episode About Adult Hospitality and the Friendship Recession

When they surveyed people in 2022 and 2023, most Americans actually reported having friends.

All The Feelings • Still Adulting
Strip the Bed, Text Your Friend: An Extremely Reasonable Episode About Adult Hospitality and the Friendship Recession

Over 75% said they were satisfied with the number of friends they had.

All The Feelings • Still Adulting
Strip the Bed, Text Your Friend: An Extremely Reasonable Episode About Adult Hospitality and the Friendship Recession

But this is the complication again.

All The Feelings • Still Adulting
Strip the Bed, Text Your Friend: An Extremely Reasonable Episode About Adult Hospitality and the Friendship Recession

More than 40% said they weren't close to any of those friends or they weren't as close as they'd like to be.

All The Feelings • Still Adulting
Strip the Bed, Text Your Friend: An Extremely Reasonable Episode About Adult Hospitality and the Friendship Recession

So separate research says, and I guess I would use the word acquaintances, that they have a lot of acquaintances, but no close friends.

All The Feelings • Still Adulting
Strip the Bed, Text Your Friend: An Extremely Reasonable Episode About Adult Hospitality and the Friendship Recession

And that leans into that shrinkage of our social circles.