Peter Crone
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And she was literally on the other side of the planet. She couldn't physically have been further. She was in New Zealand, right? And this isn't a knowing, right? This is an energetic resonance that I would assert at that moment I had become available for the first time in my life. Because I wasn't available. Most people in relationships aren't available. I know that's a bold statement to make.
And she was literally on the other side of the planet. She couldn't physically have been further. She was in New Zealand, right? And this isn't a knowing, right? This is an energetic resonance that I would assert at that moment I had become available for the first time in my life. Because I wasn't available. Most people in relationships aren't available. I know that's a bold statement to make.
But because you're fighting your own feelings of constraint, and then your partner is the mirror for hopefully for those things to obviously get transmuted. But at that moment, I no longer had anything to prove. I didn't need to hold on to her. I understood what love was. I recognized what freedom was.
But because you're fighting your own feelings of constraint, and then your partner is the mirror for hopefully for those things to obviously get transmuted. But at that moment, I no longer had anything to prove. I didn't need to hold on to her. I understood what love was. I recognized what freedom was.
But because you're fighting your own feelings of constraint, and then your partner is the mirror for hopefully for those things to obviously get transmuted. But at that moment, I no longer had anything to prove. I didn't need to hold on to her. I understood what love was. I recognized what freedom was.
And albeit, of course, over the last two plus decades, you know, there's been moments where I've still tried to figure shit out, but it wasn't from a place of fear. It wasn't from a place of worry. It wasn't from a place of, you know, desperation. So that was the insight that could not be unseen.
And albeit, of course, over the last two plus decades, you know, there's been moments where I've still tried to figure shit out, but it wasn't from a place of fear. It wasn't from a place of worry. It wasn't from a place of, you know, desperation. So that was the insight that could not be unseen.
And albeit, of course, over the last two plus decades, you know, there's been moments where I've still tried to figure shit out, but it wasn't from a place of fear. It wasn't from a place of worry. It wasn't from a place of, you know, desperation. So that was the insight that could not be unseen.
It's such a beautiful question. And I feel so blessed that I got to see that, right? Because at one level, it could be embarrassing, right? But again, like I say, you can't be held accountable for that, which you're oblivious to. So I didn't know any better. I was a great boyfriend. I was a great boyfriend.
It's such a beautiful question. And I feel so blessed that I got to see that, right? Because at one level, it could be embarrassing, right? But again, like I say, you can't be held accountable for that, which you're oblivious to. So I didn't know any better. I was a great boyfriend. I was a great boyfriend.
It's such a beautiful question. And I feel so blessed that I got to see that, right? Because at one level, it could be embarrassing, right? But again, like I say, you can't be held accountable for that, which you're oblivious to. So I didn't know any better. I was a great boyfriend. I was a great boyfriend.
But I was nonetheless more in relationship with my fears and my constraints than I was with her. You know, when people really get that, it hurts, you know, it stings because there was love. And thankfully, she came back around many years later.
But I was nonetheless more in relationship with my fears and my constraints than I was with her. You know, when people really get that, it hurts, you know, it stings because there was love. And thankfully, she came back around many years later.
But I was nonetheless more in relationship with my fears and my constraints than I was with her. You know, when people really get that, it hurts, you know, it stings because there was love. And thankfully, she came back around many years later.
She's married happily and, you know, found me on Instagram and is like still super grateful for everything we went through, which is, for me, peace in the way that, you know, it was a beautiful experience together. But nonetheless, to answer your question, what I really got was that Most people don't relate to other people.
She's married happily and, you know, found me on Instagram and is like still super grateful for everything we went through, which is, for me, peace in the way that, you know, it was a beautiful experience together. But nonetheless, to answer your question, what I really got was that Most people don't relate to other people.
She's married happily and, you know, found me on Instagram and is like still super grateful for everything we went through, which is, for me, peace in the way that, you know, it was a beautiful experience together. But nonetheless, to answer your question, what I really got was that Most people don't relate to other people.
They're relating to other people through the lens of their own identity in the way that it serves them, for good or bad. It's the madness of the ego. You fight for your limitations, they're yours, right? So sometimes we attract circumstances, professionally, romantically, that help us to be right about the fact that we think that we're a horrible person or that we're not good enough.
They're relating to other people through the lens of their own identity in the way that it serves them, for good or bad. It's the madness of the ego. You fight for your limitations, they're yours, right? So sometimes we attract circumstances, professionally, romantically, that help us to be right about the fact that we think that we're a horrible person or that we're not good enough.
They're relating to other people through the lens of their own identity in the way that it serves them, for good or bad. It's the madness of the ego. You fight for your limitations, they're yours, right? So sometimes we attract circumstances, professionally, romantically, that help us to be right about the fact that we think that we're a horrible person or that we're not good enough.