Peter Crone
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But at that moment, I really got... I think the greatest gift you can give another human being, which is, who can I be where I'm absent? The me that is me is absent. And that I'm so with you, it's almost as though I'm truly you. Like, that to me is the gift of real listening.
But at that moment, I really got... I think the greatest gift you can give another human being, which is, who can I be where I'm absent? The me that is me is absent. And that I'm so with you, it's almost as though I'm truly you. Like, that to me is the gift of real listening.
But at that moment, I really got... I think the greatest gift you can give another human being, which is, who can I be where I'm absent? The me that is me is absent. And that I'm so with you, it's almost as though I'm truly you. Like, that to me is the gift of real listening.
To get someone's reality, and it doesn't mean you have to agree with it, condone with it, or go by whatever they're asking of you. But to really get their reality, to me, is the greatest gift of love you can afford somebody. And I got it. I was like, holy shit, I just wanted to be with her.
To get someone's reality, and it doesn't mean you have to agree with it, condone with it, or go by whatever they're asking of you. But to really get their reality, to me, is the greatest gift of love you can afford somebody. And I got it. I was like, holy shit, I just wanted to be with her.
To get someone's reality, and it doesn't mean you have to agree with it, condone with it, or go by whatever they're asking of you. But to really get their reality, to me, is the greatest gift of love you can afford somebody. And I got it. I was like, holy shit, I just wanted to be with her.
No agenda, no intention, no Peter Crone in the way, no fear of loss, no little boy that needed reassuring, none of that. And there's something so beautiful about it because it's almost like by virtue of truly being with another being, human being, you get to see another facet of consciousness itself. It's almost like we're all different parts of an eight billion faceted diamond, right?
No agenda, no intention, no Peter Crone in the way, no fear of loss, no little boy that needed reassuring, none of that. And there's something so beautiful about it because it's almost like by virtue of truly being with another being, human being, you get to see another facet of consciousness itself. It's almost like we're all different parts of an eight billion faceted diamond, right?
No agenda, no intention, no Peter Crone in the way, no fear of loss, no little boy that needed reassuring, none of that. And there's something so beautiful about it because it's almost like by virtue of truly being with another being, human being, you get to see another facet of consciousness itself. It's almost like we're all different parts of an eight billion faceted diamond, right?
And we all have a slightly different perspective. And so in the absence of the I, you're left with the they. And it's beautiful for two reasons, because it's both liberating, because in the absence of the me, which tends to be founded in constraints, I feel free, But then it's the gift of presence to be with someone. And we see this with kids and parents, right?
And we all have a slightly different perspective. And so in the absence of the I, you're left with the they. And it's beautiful for two reasons, because it's both liberating, because in the absence of the me, which tends to be founded in constraints, I feel free, But then it's the gift of presence to be with someone. And we see this with kids and parents, right?
And we all have a slightly different perspective. And so in the absence of the I, you're left with the they. And it's beautiful for two reasons, because it's both liberating, because in the absence of the me, which tends to be founded in constraints, I feel free, But then it's the gift of presence to be with someone. And we see this with kids and parents, right?
Like the number one thing that I ask or I hear from parents is, you know, how can I both help my kids to become better humans, but how can I get my kids to listen because they don't listen? And it's to teach them this, that you're not with them. You're superimposing your view of who they should be, who you'd like them to be.
Like the number one thing that I ask or I hear from parents is, you know, how can I both help my kids to become better humans, but how can I get my kids to listen because they don't listen? And it's to teach them this, that you're not with them. You're superimposing your view of who they should be, who you'd like them to be.
Like the number one thing that I ask or I hear from parents is, you know, how can I both help my kids to become better humans, but how can I get my kids to listen because they don't listen? And it's to teach them this, that you're not with them. You're superimposing your view of who they should be, who you'd like them to be.
Oftentimes, you're preoccupied with a device or cooking or doing something, which is understandable. But the kid doesn't have any of that. The kid is so present. And so it's the tugging of the pant legs for the 20th time. Mommy, mommy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy. They don't yet feel heard or seen or held.
Oftentimes, you're preoccupied with a device or cooking or doing something, which is understandable. But the kid doesn't have any of that. The kid is so present. And so it's the tugging of the pant legs for the 20th time. Mommy, mommy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy. They don't yet feel heard or seen or held.
Oftentimes, you're preoccupied with a device or cooking or doing something, which is understandable. But the kid doesn't have any of that. The kid is so present. And so it's the tugging of the pant legs for the 20th time. Mommy, mommy, daddy, daddy, daddy, daddy. They don't yet feel heard or seen or held.
And so in the absence of the idea of oneself, which I know can sound very esoteric, but it's a literal experience. you get to truly be, fully be with another person. And that to me is true intimacy. That's the beautiful, pure line of connection that is always there underneath the static that is our egos trying to be right or connect.
And so in the absence of the idea of oneself, which I know can sound very esoteric, but it's a literal experience. you get to truly be, fully be with another person. And that to me is true intimacy. That's the beautiful, pure line of connection that is always there underneath the static that is our egos trying to be right or connect.