Peter Crone
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And she recognized one of her tendencies was to interrupt a lot. And she didn't even know she was doing it, right? But it's a form of like trying to get attention or, oh, look, I also know or whatever it is, right? Which is on the top of the deeper foundation of feeling inadequate or not loved.
And she recognized one of her tendencies was to interrupt a lot. And she didn't even know she was doing it, right? But it's a form of like trying to get attention or, oh, look, I also know or whatever it is, right? Which is on the top of the deeper foundation of feeling inadequate or not loved.
And she recognized one of her tendencies was to interrupt a lot. And she didn't even know she was doing it, right? But it's a form of like trying to get attention or, oh, look, I also know or whatever it is, right? Which is on the top of the deeper foundation of feeling inadequate or not loved.
And so when she saw that, it was both embarrassing, but also to our point earlier, like it denies the fact that she just wants to love and be part of something. And she went home and she's like, oh my God, like I had dinner, you know, my parents and sibling. And it's insane. Everybody's just sort of basically screaming at each other. Like no one's listening to anything.
And so when she saw that, it was both embarrassing, but also to our point earlier, like it denies the fact that she just wants to love and be part of something. And she went home and she's like, oh my God, like I had dinner, you know, my parents and sibling. And it's insane. Everybody's just sort of basically screaming at each other. Like no one's listening to anything.
And so when she saw that, it was both embarrassing, but also to our point earlier, like it denies the fact that she just wants to love and be part of something. And she went home and she's like, oh my God, like I had dinner, you know, my parents and sibling. And it's insane. Everybody's just sort of basically screaming at each other. Like no one's listening to anything.
Like you hear what people say and there's some sort of semblance of response, but really it's like, well, you just said something. I'm going to take time to say something. And for me, that's just sort of this, again, this accumulation, the remnants of a child that never actually got heard, seen or held. That's still, it's still trying to get, just love me, you know?
Like you hear what people say and there's some sort of semblance of response, but really it's like, well, you just said something. I'm going to take time to say something. And for me, that's just sort of this, again, this accumulation, the remnants of a child that never actually got heard, seen or held. That's still, it's still trying to get, just love me, you know?
Like you hear what people say and there's some sort of semblance of response, but really it's like, well, you just said something. I'm going to take time to say something. And for me, that's just sort of this, again, this accumulation, the remnants of a child that never actually got heard, seen or held. That's still, it's still trying to get, just love me, you know?
And that's where we see often in the world, it's just a bit of a desperate energy where people are trying to be seen, you know, and whatever means we do from, surgery at the extremes to clothing and makeup and stuff, you know, and it's all okay. It's all okay. We have compassion for it, but it's exhausting.
And that's where we see often in the world, it's just a bit of a desperate energy where people are trying to be seen, you know, and whatever means we do from, surgery at the extremes to clothing and makeup and stuff, you know, and it's all okay. It's all okay. We have compassion for it, but it's exhausting.
And that's where we see often in the world, it's just a bit of a desperate energy where people are trying to be seen, you know, and whatever means we do from, surgery at the extremes to clothing and makeup and stuff, you know, and it's all okay. It's all okay. We have compassion for it, but it's exhausting.
So to really relate is to ironically, you know, not be there in terms of the idea of yourself so that you could really be with whoever's in front of you, you know.
So to really relate is to ironically, you know, not be there in terms of the idea of yourself so that you could really be with whoever's in front of you, you know.
So to really relate is to ironically, you know, not be there in terms of the idea of yourself so that you could really be with whoever's in front of you, you know.
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I mean, only to reiterate what I said, which I think is the greatest gift we can afford ourselves and the person we're listening to, right? Because it's truly reciprocated in the way that I step aside the idea of myself that has any agenda.
I mean, only to reiterate what I said, which I think is the greatest gift we can afford ourselves and the person we're listening to, right? Because it's truly reciprocated in the way that I step aside the idea of myself that has any agenda.