Peter Crone
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I mean, only to reiterate what I said, which I think is the greatest gift we can afford ourselves and the person we're listening to, right? Because it's truly reciprocated in the way that I step aside the idea of myself that has any agenda.
has any concern about how I occur to you, like that I want to look, you know, favorable, good, loved, cool, whatever it is, like that all of that's put to one side. And I really get to just be with you and to hear what's going on without any judgment. It really is the demonstration of generosity in both directions, right? I'm going to hold space for you in a way that
has any concern about how I occur to you, like that I want to look, you know, favorable, good, loved, cool, whatever it is, like that all of that's put to one side. And I really get to just be with you and to hear what's going on without any judgment. It really is the demonstration of generosity in both directions, right? I'm going to hold space for you in a way that
has any concern about how I occur to you, like that I want to look, you know, favorable, good, loved, cool, whatever it is, like that all of that's put to one side. And I really get to just be with you and to hear what's going on without any judgment. It really is the demonstration of generosity in both directions, right? I'm going to hold space for you in a way that
is generous, but you're going to, for that reason, feel safe enough that you can express yourself fully, vulnerably, without any fear of judgment. And so that's equally a form of generosity, right? Because that's intimacy, intimacy. I've often said, albeit in a crass example, I'd much rather someone come up to me and say, hey, I think you're a bit of an asshole and your work is bullshit.
is generous, but you're going to, for that reason, feel safe enough that you can express yourself fully, vulnerably, without any fear of judgment. And so that's equally a form of generosity, right? Because that's intimacy, intimacy. I've often said, albeit in a crass example, I'd much rather someone come up to me and say, hey, I think you're a bit of an asshole and your work is bullshit.
is generous, but you're going to, for that reason, feel safe enough that you can express yourself fully, vulnerably, without any fear of judgment. And so that's equally a form of generosity, right? Because that's intimacy, intimacy. I've often said, albeit in a crass example, I'd much rather someone come up to me and say, hey, I think you're a bit of an asshole and your work is bullshit.
And we can have a conversation about it versus somebody coming up to me and say, oh my God, you're amazing. And then they walk away and they tell their friend, you know, out of my earshot, that guy's just such a dick, you know, like there's no relationship there. Right.
And we can have a conversation about it versus somebody coming up to me and say, oh my God, you're amazing. And then they walk away and they tell their friend, you know, out of my earshot, that guy's just such a dick, you know, like there's no relationship there. Right.
And we can have a conversation about it versus somebody coming up to me and say, oh my God, you're amazing. And then they walk away and they tell their friend, you know, out of my earshot, that guy's just such a dick, you know, like there's no relationship there. Right.
Well, we've cleared it up since then. We're good now. Because it's... Do you want to truly connect and relate to somebody and really have that feeling of intimacy and affinity? Yeah. Or do you want to just keep dancing in the pretense and the facades of everything? It's like there's no depth. There's no fulfillment there. There's no gratification.
Well, we've cleared it up since then. We're good now. Because it's... Do you want to truly connect and relate to somebody and really have that feeling of intimacy and affinity? Yeah. Or do you want to just keep dancing in the pretense and the facades of everything? It's like there's no depth. There's no fulfillment there. There's no gratification.
Well, we've cleared it up since then. We're good now. Because it's... Do you want to truly connect and relate to somebody and really have that feeling of intimacy and affinity? Yeah. Or do you want to just keep dancing in the pretense and the facades of everything? It's like there's no depth. There's no fulfillment there. There's no gratification.
It's every relationship that to me is worth its salt or... has got some sort of inspirational story associated with it, is littered with trials and tribulations that those people went through. I once had this, because I always love to work on myself, so I worked with a coach about relationships, and she said, I don't trust any romantic relationship that hasn't been to the edge of annihilation.
It's every relationship that to me is worth its salt or... has got some sort of inspirational story associated with it, is littered with trials and tribulations that those people went through. I once had this, because I always love to work on myself, so I worked with a coach about relationships, and she said, I don't trust any romantic relationship that hasn't been to the edge of annihilation.
It's every relationship that to me is worth its salt or... has got some sort of inspirational story associated with it, is littered with trials and tribulations that those people went through. I once had this, because I always love to work on myself, so I worked with a coach about relationships, and she said, I don't trust any romantic relationship that hasn't been to the edge of annihilation.
You know, and it really hit me as like, there's so much beauty in that, right? Like, because if everything has been so above, you know, the world of drama and heartache and suffering, because you kept it all together, That's just not real. It's just not human. You want to get into the dirt of a relationship and really feel what it is to be fully exposed.
You know, and it really hit me as like, there's so much beauty in that, right? Like, because if everything has been so above, you know, the world of drama and heartache and suffering, because you kept it all together, That's just not real. It's just not human. You want to get into the dirt of a relationship and really feel what it is to be fully exposed.
You know, and it really hit me as like, there's so much beauty in that, right? Like, because if everything has been so above, you know, the world of drama and heartache and suffering, because you kept it all together, That's just not real. It's just not human. You want to get into the dirt of a relationship and really feel what it is to be fully exposed.
As scary as that is and as embarrassing as that can be, that's to relate. You know, otherwise it's all just facade and everything's like, you know, what is that movie, The Stepford Wives or whatever? It's like everything's just perfect, you know, and it's not.