Phil Barden
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You don't just act one time and think, okay, now I'm bold. I wasn't born this way, but I did notice when I actually got certain wins. It wasn't because I was the smartest or the prettiest. It was because I actually just asked the question.
You don't just act one time and think, okay, now I'm bold. I wasn't born this way, but I did notice when I actually got certain wins. It wasn't because I was the smartest or the prettiest. It was because I actually just asked the question.
You don't just act one time and think, okay, now I'm bold. I wasn't born this way, but I did notice when I actually got certain wins. It wasn't because I was the smartest or the prettiest. It was because I actually just asked the question.
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Thank you for having me. This is exciting.
Thank you for having me. This is exciting.
Absolutely. And there lies the problem, right? Because we are scared of failure and we have so much self-doubt. It's human nature, right? It's human nature to have these feelings, but it's about acting even when, even when you feel that way. Because the truth of the matter is something in motion stays in motion. Something stagnant stays stagnant.
Absolutely. And there lies the problem, right? Because we are scared of failure and we have so much self-doubt. It's human nature, right? It's human nature to have these feelings, but it's about acting even when, even when you feel that way. Because the truth of the matter is something in motion stays in motion. Something stagnant stays stagnant.
Absolutely. And there lies the problem, right? Because we are scared of failure and we have so much self-doubt. It's human nature, right? It's human nature to have these feelings, but it's about acting even when, even when you feel that way. Because the truth of the matter is something in motion stays in motion. Something stagnant stays stagnant.
That's why there's also that saying, when you're busy, when you want something done, give it to a busy person because inertia happens, momentum. So even if you have that self-doubt, even if you fear that failure, still... act. Because you can't just go from A to Z and just be like, well, just be bold. It doesn't work that way.
That's why there's also that saying, when you're busy, when you want something done, give it to a busy person because inertia happens, momentum. So even if you have that self-doubt, even if you fear that failure, still... act. Because you can't just go from A to Z and just be like, well, just be bold. It doesn't work that way.
That's why there's also that saying, when you're busy, when you want something done, give it to a busy person because inertia happens, momentum. So even if you have that self-doubt, even if you fear that failure, still... act. Because you can't just go from A to Z and just be like, well, just be bold. It doesn't work that way.
But if you get good at asking for the little things in life, you can get better at asking for the big things in life. So you start with these small, little, bold moves that accumulate and compound over time. And I also believe that you need to become immune to to failure. And the only way to get desensitized and immune to failure and rejection is by doing something over and over again.
But if you get good at asking for the little things in life, you can get better at asking for the big things in life. So you start with these small, little, bold moves that accumulate and compound over time. And I also believe that you need to become immune to to failure. And the only way to get desensitized and immune to failure and rejection is by doing something over and over again.
But if you get good at asking for the little things in life, you can get better at asking for the big things in life. So you start with these small, little, bold moves that accumulate and compound over time. And I also believe that you need to become immune to to failure. And the only way to get desensitized and immune to failure and rejection is by doing something over and over again.
And that's why I have the 10% target. And the 10% target is based around making 10 attempts at anything you want most in life. And even if you don't get to that goal, even if you don't get to that goal, another opportunity will present itself that you didn't even know existed by just going through the process.
And that's why I have the 10% target. And the 10% target is based around making 10 attempts at anything you want most in life. And even if you don't get to that goal, even if you don't get to that goal, another opportunity will present itself that you didn't even know existed by just going through the process.
And that's why I have the 10% target. And the 10% target is based around making 10 attempts at anything you want most in life. And even if you don't get to that goal, even if you don't get to that goal, another opportunity will present itself that you didn't even know existed by just going through the process.
So let's say you love sports and you want to work for a sports team. Then start working with that realm and make 10 attempts. Look at the people that are in your life. See who in your life is working for a sports team. Or email someone. Go on LinkedIn and see who's... the manager or the director of a certain division, right? But make these 10 attempts.
So let's say you love sports and you want to work for a sports team. Then start working with that realm and make 10 attempts. Look at the people that are in your life. See who in your life is working for a sports team. Or email someone. Go on LinkedIn and see who's... the manager or the director of a certain division, right? But make these 10 attempts.