Poh Ling Yeow
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So I had no, she'd never taught me how to place a value on what, what a good man is and how they should treat you.
So I,
It put me in way more danger.
Yeah.
Not having those street smarts.
Yes.
Yes.
It's external.
It's an external force that's giving you those instead of like an internalized device, I guess.
Yeah.
Yeah.
No, you're right.
Yeah.
And that's what makes it kind of, yeah, it makes it dangerous.
I also, on the other hand, I also...
I do understand.
Like I know families who have used the church to raise the children and then left because they just needed it to help hold the family together because it's just like some kind of philosophical fence thing.
to protect the kids in.
And then when they were old enough to think for themselves, they felt they've left the church.
I've known lots of families that have done that.