Poh Ling Yeow

My brother wasn't happy either.

And for many years, there was just so much focus on trying to get me back to church.

But it's interesting because my brother has taken quite senior positions in the church.

And I think because

of it he's actually seen uh being a bishop he's had he's got kids as well and I think before having life experience and realizing like you know everyone in the congregation isn't perfect um he had a lot more of an idealistic expectation of you know what it meant to be a church member and then ever since he's been a bishop he's just been so much more chill and like yeah just he's

fully accepting like my stance and really, yeah, we're really close again.

But for a while there, it was like, it was hard because I felt like he was always trying to, all our conversations were really making me justify why I didn't want to come back to church.

Yeah, yeah.

I think it's also the stage in my life as well.

I think because I've been through two marriages, right?

And I think because I'm footless and fancy free without kids, I can afford myself quite a liberal attitude towards relationships.

And I think because at my age, me meeting someone who's already gone through all that is very likely.

And I don't feel like there needs to be this like set up a home nest.

We don't need to do any of that.

I think...

Um, I'm happy to have long distance.

I'm happy to have something that's like quite a liberal arrangement.

So that so long as everyone is aware of what's happening, I don't know.

Like I haven't found any takers yet to be honest.

I haven't been looking.