Portia

She's a grown woman, and I had a role. You know, all my mother's children have lived with me, and it's like, but now it's like everybody's already had their chances. Everybody's got to stand up. So I told her no, and she just kind of stopped talking to me, and it just devastated me and made me angry, and I'm never angry with them.

She's a grown woman, and I had a role. You know, all my mother's children have lived with me, and it's like, but now it's like everybody's already had their chances. Everybody's got to stand up. So I told her no, and she just kind of stopped talking to me, and it just devastated me and made me angry, and I'm never angry with them.

So I know I need to check myself and however I'm showing up for them because there's some kind of – the balance is not right. So my question for Dr. Tama is how do I –

So I know I need to check myself and however I'm showing up for them because there's some kind of – the balance is not right. So my question for Dr. Tama is how do I –

So I know I need to check myself and however I'm showing up for them because there's some kind of – the balance is not right. So my question for Dr. Tama is how do I –

balance my relationship with my siblings where I show up as a sibling and not as like a savior or I feel obligated to my family so often and I don't want to feel that way because it makes me retreat sometimes and become resentful yes and angry and I don't want to have that because I've done so much but I also need to because it's showing up in my intimate relationships as well so my question is I need some balance and I need to stop feeling obligated I don't know why I feel that way

balance my relationship with my siblings where I show up as a sibling and not as like a savior or I feel obligated to my family so often and I don't want to feel that way because it makes me retreat sometimes and become resentful yes and angry and I don't want to have that because I've done so much but I also need to because it's showing up in my intimate relationships as well so my question is I need some balance and I need to stop feeling obligated I don't know why I feel that way

balance my relationship with my siblings where I show up as a sibling and not as like a savior or I feel obligated to my family so often and I don't want to feel that way because it makes me retreat sometimes and become resentful yes and angry and I don't want to have that because I've done so much but I also need to because it's showing up in my intimate relationships as well so my question is I need some balance and I need to stop feeling obligated I don't know why I feel that way

Yeah, I do. And the obligation feeling is because I know that I'm blessed to be a blessing.

Yeah, I do. And the obligation feeling is because I know that I'm blessed to be a blessing.

Yeah, I do. And the obligation feeling is because I know that I'm blessed to be a blessing.

I understand.

I understand.

I understand.

And I have taken myself into another area and I have a home where I also provide 24 hour care for young girls who grew up like myself. And that's where my energy is now, because those are people who do not have families and things of that nature. But it's the sense of obligation that I really want to work on.

And I have taken myself into another area and I have a home where I also provide 24 hour care for young girls who grew up like myself. And that's where my energy is now, because those are people who do not have families and things of that nature. But it's the sense of obligation that I really want to work on.

And I have taken myself into another area and I have a home where I also provide 24 hour care for young girls who grew up like myself. And that's where my energy is now, because those are people who do not have families and things of that nature. But it's the sense of obligation that I really want to work on.

Because if I show up in my family and something's not there, I just feel like I need to fix it.

Because if I show up in my family and something's not there, I just feel like I need to fix it.

Because if I show up in my family and something's not there, I just feel like I need to fix it.