Rabbi Aryeh Lebowitz

When I carried the woman across the puddle, after I got across the puddle, I put her down.

but you are still carrying her.

And his point was that when you make too big a deal out of these things, when you obsess over it, when you're always talking about it, you have a hard time letting it go.

You could walk down the street and, okay, you accidentally saw something, just keep going and forget about it.

Or you can rehash, oh, I did this terrible aver, I did this terrible aver, and then you're seeing it over and over and over again in your mind's eye.

So he said once that someone dropped off a bunch of pamphlets in, or a farm or something, in Camp Aguda.

about Shemira Sayin Ayim, and Rabbi Reisman said that he took the whole box and put them by the dumpster.

We don't obsess about these things.

So secure your stuff as much as you possibly can.

Try to avoid as much as you possibly can.

Don't obsess about it.

Question number 10.

How should one shush or communicate to somebody talking to them when you can't just say the words out loud to signal for them to stop talking, i.e.

during Leni, Chazar, Shatz, Kaddish, etc.

?

I'm not really sure what the question is.

If someone's trying to talk to you, just point to your sitter.

Make the signal for one minute and point to your sitter.

Or start walking outside.

Motion for them to come outside with you.