Rachel Bilson

And it's, you know, we have been able to keep it very like copacetic and nice for her.

Well, we weren't ever married.

So we never, you know, had to.

So we figured out our own.

way that's nice our own path yeah actually advice is just god I don't even know because I hear so many different situations some people are so evolved and like it's amazing from the from the jump like they don't have to do anything I don't really have an answer other than communicating and sometimes you have to compromise a lot there's no real answer I know it's not in every situation is so different so different

I mean, yeah.

And, you know, I'm really close to his family and it's been almost like 19 years or something, which is, yeah, a long time.

Oh, wow.

It was the same pattern.

Yeah.

God, it taught me so much.

I was so young though.

How old were you?

When we met, how old were you?

Yeah.

But he and I are the same age.

So, you know, I mean, I know it's different guys and girls, like girls mature faster and stuff, but it was still pretty similar.

I was really young and I think that that relationship let me kind of take a step back.

And I felt I was very present because I wasn't just chasing the career thing.

You know, it wasn't number one for me.