Rachel Cruz

I'm not saying it's wrong.

It's just tough.

Well, and I think too, Derek, I think it's too, I think it can feel like the 12 million's off in this corner and it's never, we're never going to participate in it.

But I think it comes into its mind if something happens.

But up until that point, it's ours.

Like we're sharing assets.

That is a very good point.

Like we are living our lives together as one.

But for some reason, if something ever happened in a divorce, this part still goes back to me.

Does that make sense?

I wonder if framing it... That's a good way to frame it, because that actually... With her, because it can be hers, right?

Like, you guys can share on this.

The only time it's not hers is if you guys legally go through a divorce.

Does that make sense?

And it sounds like that's, yeah.

And that sounds like your attitude because you're going to take some of our money and we're going to buy a house together with this money and use this money for our family.

So I think it's, it's such a fine line, Derek.

I mean, it's so hard, but I think I would keep it and bring in a third party.

If there's a great marriage counselor or therapist, honestly, it's something to think through and even get other opinions because yeah, you want to be on the same page with this.

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