Rachel Cruze

Who you are, your net worth is not your self-worth.

It doesn't equal who Brittany is.

And so separating those things out and saying, this is who I am with a house or not, with a nice car or not, with a second home or not.

Like you are who you are.

And then all of these other things are additions in your life.

We want to make sure the things that are additional in your life are blessing you and are good for you and not taking away.

So this is this may feel like a step back for you, but it's not.

I think it's a learning idea.

And you will buy a house again.

I really do believe that, Brittany, you will.

But you just have to be smart about it.

And just to be able to have the humility to say, yeah, this was not a smart decision right now.

But it's not who you are.

You're not a failure, right?

And so you got to separate those two things.

They feel very intertwined to me as you're speaking.

No, but the bill collector could be negotiated with.

Yeah, that's why I always wonder the moral card.

I mean, I get he's frustrated because he's like, you know, there is market value elsewhere.

And you could probably have a whole discussion about do things really cost all this.