Rachel Cruze

make sure that it doesn't affect our amazing father-son relationship and how do i how do i do it dave's looking at me jack for me to be the bearer of bad news for you uh it will change your relationship so i mean there's no way around it it does and so when scripture says the borrower is slave to the lender your dad is now your bank

And so now it changes the relationship.

Whether you like it or not, as healthy and wonderful as the relationship is, this almost always ends up putting a strain.

And so I wouldn't do it.

I would not sacrifice the most amazing relationship you have with him, which is such a gift to be a grown son and have that much respect and love and honor for your father.

Keep it pure.

Keep it simple.

Keep it clean.

And you and your fiancé, you guys, just go.

Go and— Go have your life.

Yes, go have your life.

Do not tangle finances.

Instead of being the bank.

I know.

I feel weird for him asking his dad that.

I know.

Yeah, just keep it clean, Jack.

And it's a slower process to do that.

You have.

I know.