Rachel Cruze
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Yeah. And the reason why we do that, John, is because what we find is home ownership is extremely expensive. Right. So when you when the heating and air goes out, you know, you have to take care of the yard. I mean, there's so much that goes into owning a home and it's very expensive. And so when broke people go and buy homes, they become broker owners. is what happens.
Yeah. And the reason why we do that, John, is because what we find is home ownership is extremely expensive. Right. So when you when the heating and air goes out, you know, you have to take care of the yard. I mean, there's so much that goes into owning a home and it's very expensive. And so when broke people go and buy homes, they become broker owners. is what happens.
Yeah. And the reason why we do that, John, is because what we find is home ownership is extremely expensive. Right. So when you when the heating and air goes out, you know, you have to take care of the yard. I mean, there's so much that goes into owning a home and it's very expensive. And so when broke people go and buy homes, they become broker owners. is what happens.
Not right away, unless you guys can't come to it. I mean, like, if you can't come to agreement, that means you can't come to agreement on him spending money and not telling you, which is weird. That's not okay.
Not right away, unless you guys can't come to it. I mean, like, if you can't come to agreement, that means you can't come to agreement on him spending money and not telling you, which is weird. That's not okay.
Not right away, unless you guys can't come to it. I mean, like, if you can't come to agreement, that means you can't come to agreement on him spending money and not telling you, which is weird. That's not okay.
Yeah, like that feels very not trustworthy. I don't like that. Yeah, the secret stuff, not good. That will rot away a relationship real quick.
Yeah, like that feels very not trustworthy. I don't like that. Yeah, the secret stuff, not good. That will rot away a relationship real quick.
Yeah, like that feels very not trustworthy. I don't like that. Yeah, the secret stuff, not good. That will rot away a relationship real quick.
They get in a really stressful spot. And so putting yourself in a position where you have such this like zero risk, lots of money in the bank. So when things come up, it's like, oh, that broke. We'll just fix it here out of this cash that we have. We're not having to go deeper into debt for things that happen. We have the ability to be autonomous with our money.
They get in a really stressful spot. And so putting yourself in a position where you have such this like zero risk, lots of money in the bank. So when things come up, it's like, oh, that broke. We'll just fix it here out of this cash that we have. We're not having to go deeper into debt for things that happen. We have the ability to be autonomous with our money.
They get in a really stressful spot. And so putting yourself in a position where you have such this like zero risk, lots of money in the bank. So when things come up, it's like, oh, that broke. We'll just fix it here out of this cash that we have. We're not having to go deeper into debt for things that happen. We have the ability to be autonomous with our money.
Yes. And I would do that before I make any like rash decisions really quickly because a lot of this is very emotional based, which I understand.
Yes. And I would do that before I make any like rash decisions really quickly because a lot of this is very emotional based, which I understand.
Yes. And I would do that before I make any like rash decisions really quickly because a lot of this is very emotional based, which I understand.
But until we can get like as two adults talking in agreement and if you start realize, oh my gosh, I still can't trust him because he's not fully on agreement or whatever, then like, all right, we need to start like having some more serious discussions about it. our life and our money.
But until we can get like as two adults talking in agreement and if you start realize, oh my gosh, I still can't trust him because he's not fully on agreement or whatever, then like, all right, we need to start like having some more serious discussions about it. our life and our money.
But until we can get like as two adults talking in agreement and if you start realize, oh my gosh, I still can't trust him because he's not fully on agreement or whatever, then like, all right, we need to start like having some more serious discussions about it. our life and our money.
And that is a very stress free way to live versus the opposite. And the opposite would be what many people do, John, they're in your situation and then they go and get a mortgage and get a home and they're dating someone. They buy a house with the person they're dating.
And that is a very stress free way to live versus the opposite. And the opposite would be what many people do, John, they're in your situation and then they go and get a mortgage and get a home and they're dating someone. They buy a house with the person they're dating.